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I feel inferior compared to my girlfriend!

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Question - (3 August 2009) 4 Answers - (Newest, 3 August 2009)
A male United States age 22-25, *azzedUp writes:

I've been with my girlfriend for 3 months and they've been wonderful, but I can't help but feel a little bit inferior. She is an amazing gymnast. She competes in meets all over America and I know she's gonna go on to be big. I just dont' see what she sees in me. As far as achievements go, all I do is drive an 09 Foose deal...what have I got on her? Can someone please help me?

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A male reader, Elliiott France +, writes (3 August 2009):

Elliiott agony auntI've recently had this problem, I spoke to my girlfriend about the matter, Which I shouldn't of, I should of ignored what I was feeling ..

She told me the most wonderful things, About how her heart beats faster than normal when she sees me, Ect ...

I wouldn't worry about it mate, She loves you for who you are, Don't worry !

- Elliott.

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A male reader, lionelhutz United States +, writes (3 August 2009):

Whatever she does, in the end she is still a regular person. When you start putting her on a pedastal and feeling inferior, it is only a matter of time before things start going down hill (trust me on this). Your girlfriend wants to be with you because SHE wants to be with YOU. Don't give her a reason to stop wanting it.

good luck!

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A female reader, k_c100 United Kingdom +, writes (3 August 2009):

k_c100 agony auntThere will be loads she sees in you - it isnt just about what you do in life! She will like you for your personality, for the way you make her feel, for the way you treat her etc. Just because you are not rich, or an amazing sportsman etc doesnt matter; sometimes you just fall for a person because of who they are, not what they are.

Be proud of your girlfriend's achievements and support her in everything she does - she will appreciate that more than anything else.

But dont forget to follow your own dreams too, you must have some ambitions of your own so make sure you are working towards those too. You dont have to dream of being a sportman or millionaire or anything like that, just have a career in mind or a particular job you think you might enjoy. Having goals in life is important - it gives you something to work towards. For a relationship to work you need to share lots of things but also have your own seperate interests, so make sure you have things in your life that you enjoy too.

It sounds like you have a great relationship and nothing to worry about, I think you should just feel proud to have such a great girl on your arm and she will feel proud to have such a wonderful boyfriend.

I hope this helps and good luck!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (3 August 2009):

well she is persuing her dreams and i assume you are supportive and interested. That is most probably the quality she likes in you. do not worry what she see's in you, facts are facts, she is with you because she wants to be, if not then she would not be there.

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