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writes:Hey, I am really very confused at the moment. The girl who I really like was in a relationship, however when in that relationship she would make out with me, and always be saying how great it would be if she was with me, and if she were to become single she wouldnt be able to say "no" to me asking her out after long. Around 2 weeks ago she split up with her boyfriend, one of the major reasons for the split being that it wasnt right because she liked me that much, however she has been "off" with me recently, and has been saying how she doesnt want a relationship atm, and when i say things to her about how she is attractive or brilliant she is etc, she says "i wish you didnt think of me in that way" or words to that effect. I think she must like me because only the other week, we were on the brink of sleeping together, (before things out of our control prevented that). Its really weird, when im with her alone, its fantastic, were really close, but via IM or text shes really quite cold with me. Can anyone try and give me an insight as to what she may be thinking? I am very confused.:(
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 August 2009): I personally think she's feeling insecure. She knows you know she cheated on her boyfriend and is afraid that if she makes herself too available to you now, you'll soon lose interest. I think she's afraid of getting hurt. Treat her with respect and show her that you like her, that you're interested in her as a person and would like to get to know her better. Good luck!
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reader, Love is all you need +, writes (3 August 2009):
 she's probably feeling guilty cause she finished with the other guy and hurt him and that she would still be withh him if you didn't feel that way. So give her some time to be by herself in her own thoughts.
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