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writes:I see my girlfriend almost everyday or every other day as she only lives a few roads away. We love seeing each other but im a little worried were seeing each other too much and that we're getting a bit bored.Is it possible that we're seeing each other too much? Reply to this Question
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reader, xAx +, writes (19 August 2009):
 Your relationship is just like mine. I see my boyfriend everyday even if he lives 15 mins away. I think that you do see each other a lot, but if you both love each other, than you both shouldn't get bored. How do you think the 50+ years marriages survive?
I think to make your relationship stronger, see eachother every now and again. E.g. see each other monday but not tuesday, and then again on wednesday. Like they say "Absense makes the heart grow stronger". You are in a relationship, but you still need some time to focus on yourself. Also, do not forget about your friends.
Hope this helps X
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reader, Honest_Answers +, writes (19 August 2009):
 Yes this is possible. If you saw a friend every day would you get bored too? What you need to think about is whether this is a serious relationship - are you heading to Uni or drifting apart? If you're bored and want to be together then think of things to do that are different. If you are in a sexually active relationship and this is getting boring then you need to address this with some caution - you don't want to offend her.
If you do feel you are seeing her too much - and only you can be the real judge of that - then raise the issue sensibly. Don't just start being cold with her or making up excuses, but maybe do arrange to do something with friends and not her and encourage her to do the same.
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reader, francy  +, writes (19 August 2009):
hey brother , i might not be an expert when it comes to relationships where by the two partner are close to each other as am used to long distance relationships. but the point is i think seeing each other every day aint really a problem unless you do not really love her that might lead to boredom and the loss of interest in her.. so i advice you to continue seeing each other when ever you want..
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