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writes:Hi i need some advice. A couple of months ago a met up with an old firend on facebook she 51 i 47 now both single both have early teen kids.We have met up four times now getting on really well been for meals ive been to her place a few times now and we seem to be getting closer.We have kissed cuddled a bit i think she wanted a real proper kiss the other night but i seemed to back off a bit her daughter in the other room we eneded the night and all seemed wellShe loves to text and we have the occasional chat on the phone which is fine but i detect a change in her texts this week reluctant to want to talk tired and wanting early night and not so keen to meet up this week although we have all arranged to go to a music festival on sunday.I get the feeling she has gone a bit cold have i done something? now dreading meeting sunday any advice would be great do you think i shoulkd have shown more confidence and gone with that kisspleae help thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 August 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionUpdate fron sunday.We had a great day four of us my daughter her son went to an outdoor music festival loads of chilling chat etc all went well.At end of day we went our ways small kiss and she said about meeting this thur for luch which was good so i booked a day off work.This is the text i got yesterday please tell me if im over reacting or is this the kind brush off
Hi babe you guessed it im tired not going to have time this week going to spend thurs cleaning up moving her elder daughters stuff ready to move back home.Also on a diet not drinking shock horror felt like a fat b..... at festival something has to be done hoprfully get some time next week to meet up.It was loverly to meet my daughter on sun she is loverly see you soon x.
Please tell me im being a fool and reading into this too much we all lead busy lives and have to change plans but ive got a feeling this may be a brush off.If so id rather know text messagescan so be read the wrong way.I havnt text back to this yet just left it we usually text most eves but nothing sincr this one is it time to call it a day
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 August 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionJust one more question do you think i should ask if ive upset her in anyway send some flowers or just leave it and see what happens when we meet sunday
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 August 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionMany thanks for your replies some good advice lets i hope i havnt blown it as i do like this person a lot
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reader, Rosy +, writes (19 August 2009):
Hi, sometimes women need to be kissed properly as it feels nice... its not always a sexual need but an emotional one, she probably felt bad like u werent attracted to her so she is holding back. Keep in touch with her, if you see her again try a nice short kiss, see how she reacts. If she pulls away dont try again and wait for her to contact you. If she reacts well then carry on as normal. Good luck hope it works out.
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