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Dating: Help and advice

I'm so messed up!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 182 days ago

8 April 2008 (M) - I'm having a dilemma. After several months of a new relationship, while we both talked about long term and our goals of marriage and family, our sex life was decreasing. While my ladys is wonderful in so many areas (whcih is why im with her), theres ...

Why does she keep cheating and lying to me? I love her so much!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 182 days ago

8 April 2008 (M) - Me and my g/f have been on and off for about 4 years we cant seem to be apart. We had some really rough times when we weren't together. She had two relationships with two guys at her work. Then about three months ago i told her how i felt about her, ...

He wanted me to finger myself, and kept begging me. Is he worth my time or not?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 182 days ago

8 April 2008 (F) - okay so thank you guys for answering my other one, and I have made up my mind about sex. I'm going to wait till I'm older!!!! The problem is he doesn't want to wait, in fact he wanted me to finger myself, and kept begging me. Is he worth my time or ...

What do we talk about and what's off limits for a first date?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 182 days ago

8 April 2008 (F) - The lad i like has finaly asked me out on a date. But i'm scared thing's will get arkward at parts, as we've never been totally close, just distant friends. What kind of conversations do you have? And what's off limits for a first date? Advice? P...

I'm tired of hurting, but I know i'd still love him even if we remain apart. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 182 days ago

8 April 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and i after one year of dating got seperated due to circumstances, and we continued dating. It's been just 2 months and i broke up with him cuz he just wasn't the same and then he told me the next day that he kissed another girl and ...

I'm 13 he's 17, I want sex but he's still a virgin, how do I ask him when he's ready for sex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 178 days ago

8 April 2008 (F) - Hi i'm 13 but want to have sex. I know that sounds horrible but it's hard. The boy i'm going out with, and have been for a long time, is 17, and still a virgin. How do i ask him when he's ready for sex?...

My parents doesn't like my boyfriend sleeping in the same room with me when he comes over!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 140 days ago

8 April 2008 (F) - My parents doesn't like my boyfriend sleeping in the same room with me when he comes over. I can see that as normal when you're 16, however, I'm 25 and my boyfriend is 27. My parents are the traditional ones that believes you should sleep on the ...

Does it really make sense for my boyfriend to move closer to me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 182 days ago

8 April 2008 (F) - My boyfriend of 3 years wants me to move in with him. He lives 2 hours drive away. We both have our job in two different cities. He operates his own business and I am in a family business. We see each other every weekend. It's not too far of a drive ...

Is he trying to get a reaction out of me to see where we stand?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 182 days ago

8 April 2008 (F) - ok do guys sometimes say things just to get a reaction from a girl? I am 26 and have been seeing this guy - also 26 - for 2 months. We started as friends 2 yrs ago. we have lots in common and understand trust and respect each other. We talk on the ...

I want by bf to sneak over but I don't want to get caught!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 182 days ago

8 April 2008 (F) - hey look it's not a serious probaly or anything but i really want to see my bf but hes grounded and we were talking and all and he said he could come over but he would just have to be back at a certain time i really want to see him but i don't want ...

Should I cut my losses and let him go? Am I reading too much into it all?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 182 days ago

8 April 2008 (F) - I have some niggling doubts about my boyfriend that I have been going out with for 2 years. He is 5 years younger than me - I am 36. When I first met him he admitted he had been keeping a few girls on the possibles list until then. This was ...

If my boyfriend has female friends, why when he talks to them and I ask him what's up with them does he tell me it's none of my business?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 182 days ago

8 April 2008 (F) - If my boyfriend has female friends and I have male ones, why when he talks to them (either phone or email) if I ask what's up with them, how are they, that his conversations and who he talks to are none of my business?...

I stood her up as I froze from nerves, now she's spitting her dummy out of the pram!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 182 days ago

8 April 2008 (M) - hi all I hope you can help me I was meant to be meeting up with a girl the other week and it didn't end up happening in the end because I froze, I wanted to talk to her but I couldn't if that makes sense? Anyways she didn't talk to me ...

What is a high maintenance woman?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 169 days ago

8 April 2008 (M) - What really describes a high maintenance woman? I have heard this a lot lately and was wondering, is it just about spending money? ...

I'm 34 and been single for 10 yrs! Where do I find a guy that isn't dull, depressing or a half wit????

This question has 61 answers - newest was posted 181 days ago

8 April 2008 (F) - I'm a 34 year odl girl and I have been single for about 10 years!!! i have dated a billion guys and i find them all either dull, depressing or halfwits. I have my own house, a great job and cool friends. But the guys i meet are either drug ...

Dating, but his online dating profile is still active. When is the right time to ask how things are going with us?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 182 days ago

8 April 2008 (F) - I've been seeing a guy I met online for about 2 months now, and need some advice on how to proceed. I was in a long term relationship before and am out of practice with all this dating stuff!! So we've been seeing each other for 2 months and get...

Should I ask the girl I like out again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 182 days ago

8 April 2008 (M) - ok, to put a long story short I have known (and liked) a girl for ages. I think she knows I like her and i think she might be interested in me. I have known her for years, we used to be very close but then we stopped seeing each other and when i...

Give me some tips on how I can leave a lasting impression on someone special! Cute and fun things...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 182 days ago

8 April 2008 (M) - i need help..i want to know...what can i do thats cute and fun when im now visiting a special girl in my life...???what things to say??to do???its just that i dont want to say or do the wrong things...lets just say that i want to leave a GOOD ...

I am about to lie to my family about where I am flying to

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 182 days ago

8 April 2008 (F) - I need to visit my boyfriend - I havent' seen him for months and love and miss him so much - but he lives in another country. I have hidden my relationship from other people because of our cultural differences and I am about to lie to my family ...

I was drunk and had unprotected sex, did he ejaculate....?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 181 days ago

8 April 2008 (F) - Well me and my boyfriend went out to a night club and got hammered on saturday, thing is, he told me he wanted to go home and have sex and that's perfectly fine, it's a "normal" occurance. So we went back to mine very drunk and then we went to have ...

It's been a year and I can't get over the fact that my boyfriend was so hung up about his ex

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 182 days ago

8 April 2008 (F) - My boyfriend broke up with his ex only a few days before he confessed to me and we got together. His ex got really depressed about it, and as a result, he treated her very well... A little too well in fact. Since both he and his ex belong to the...

I'm in love with a girl, but not sure how to tell her what I feel, please help.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 181 days ago

8 April 2008 (M) - Hi there, i don't know, where should i start, this is the first, severe, and disturbing confusion in my life. The thing is there is this girl whom i started spending sometime with, i used to know her in a supermarket where she works, and rece...

Should I ask if we could get a double room or not?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 181 days ago

8 April 2008 (?) - Hi aunts and uncles, I need your advice again please. It is not really a problem but a question as to how you would feel in this situation. OK so my boyfriend (18) and i (20) are planning to go on holiday this summer. I have no idea where as he sa...

I just can't help but want to ask her out again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 183 days ago

8 April 2008 (M) - My ex girlfriend broke up with me just over 2 months ago because she said the relationship was too hard, and them affectionate feelings wasnt there anymore, even though she still loved and cared for me. We didnt speak for 2 weeks when she contact...

I don't understand how she could have such strong feelings for me before she left and do this to me now.!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 168 days ago

8 April 2008 (M) - So I'm having alittle girl trouble. My ex-girlfriend and I had been together for almost 4 1/2 years before she broke up with me this past november. I was devastated and fought and tried to show her that I could change. She said she broke up with me ...

Before I just try to love him now again do I believe him when he says he loves me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 182 days ago

8 April 2008 (F) - Hi,to all the members of Dear Cupid!i do really need your advise here,This was the story goes,I meet this guy before our relationship is not good coz he meet many girls and even i am his gf,it hurts me coz he doens't contented with me,mybe he was ...

I'm kind of worried that I might be pregnant.?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 182 days ago

8 April 2008 (F) - okay so me and this guy I'm talking to had sex. he didn't use a condom the first time, but he did the 2nd time. I'm kind of worried that I might be pregnant. i don't know what to do. help?...

I really want to have sex with him, but I wanna be dating him first

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 182 days ago

8 April 2008 (F) - okay so this guy that I have liked since like 5th grade came over this past weekend, and we made out a lot. it was amazing. he left bite marks, and idk. it was crazy. I think I really want to have sex with him, but I wanna be dating him first. I ...

I don't know how to argue a point, advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 183 days ago

8 April 2008 (M) - is my girlfriend crazy? i love to joke around. life just isnt worth living without laughter. however, I almost always end up in a fight whenever she tries to joke. According to her, I either take it too far, or I can't take a joke. I often al...

Dating Dilema - does he like me or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 182 days ago

8 April 2008 (F) - Dear Aunts, Im really confused about that way that a guy I like has been acting and would love to hear your thoughts and advice. Ive known him for a few years now, we live in the same area and we both work in music. Well after bumping i...

I end up saying dumb things trying to flirt with my work mate-help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 182 days ago

8 April 2008 (M) - I have been working at my new job for 5 months and just recently we have been what I would say is flirting.....but here's the thing I have a problem with having conversations with her.....I for some reason go blank and I end up saying dumb things ...

Is this love at first sight? I shiver and feel warm and cozy when we make eye contact!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 182 days ago

8 April 2008 (F) - Have you ever believed in love at first sight? I never did, but some people say they have experienced it. What is it? Is it when you make a connection with someone all the way from across the room. Everytime I look at this boy and we connect eyes..I ...

How do I get her back after I scared her away? I told her I loved her...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 169 days ago

8 April 2008 (M) - I met this girl almost 20 years ago during a vacation and we have kept in touch mostly by letters ever since. We have seen each other a few times over the years and call each other from time to time. Recently she called me and wanted to start up a ...

Can anyone please tell me how I can approach my dad about dating some one off the net?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 182 days ago

8 April 2008 (F) - hey aunts please can you help me. i have been chattin to this guy over the net and on the fone since well before christmas and we have saw each other on webcam a few times. we have decided that we want to meet each other and we are goin to soon....

Did he truly get over me or was he just bragging to his buddies to look cooler?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 183 days ago

8 April 2008 (F) - I right off the back really liked my ex, and he liked me even more. I of course never had good luck with relationships, always getting bored, or just stopped liking the guy. I told him this and he seemed a little scared, but we went to parties ...

I'm starting to not care about relationships and stuff AT ALL. I don't even want one anymore.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 180 days ago

8 April 2008 (F) - I'm starting to not care about relationships and stuff AT ALL. I don't even want one anymore. I'm in one right now but I'm so sick of it. I don't want to deal with it but I miss my ex.. what do you think I should do?...

I have this lovely boyfriend but I hate kissing!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 142 days ago

8 April 2008 (F) - ok, this is really retarded!! I have this lovely boyfriend but I hate kissing! even just a tiny lil' peck on the check and I woud be so uncomfortable with it! We've french kissed once, but after that I was like no way am I doing that again! That ...

I'm with a beautiful girl but lately I've been feeling ignored...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 183 days ago

8 April 2008 (M) - Hello guys I'm going to get straight to the point, I have this beautiful girl who always says that she loves me. But lately I feel ignored, we play online games all of a sudden she logs in to the game we mostly play and tell me that she's been ...

How should I talk to my boyfriend about me getting stressed after a weekend having his daughter over?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 182 days ago

8 April 2008 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 2 1/2 years. We are both in our mid 20s and are very serious about our relationship. Due to work, I live 2 hours away fom him. He just got a really nice house and is dying to live with me. He understands I work at a ...

He recently old me he felt like we'd lost the spark and he no longer felt anything when he kissed me. What can I do??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 182 days ago

8 April 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been going out for almost a year and even though it is just a high school relationship, I feel it is more than that. He is the first person to ever make me really happy; however he recently old me he felt like we'd lost the ...