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Archived questions from: 19 April, 2008 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

How long is a "break" supposed to last? It's been 3 months!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 138 days ago

19 April 2008 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been on a break for aboout 3 months now. We still chill. And we still kiss. We don't talk on the phone so much. I love him sooo much. He says that he's not sure if he's in love with me. But he gets mad every time a guy ...

We found each other again online but I'm still a virgin and she's not! Will she ever be totally mine?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 138 days ago

19 April 2008 (M) - To start off, i am an 20yr old male living in canada. Currently in a serious relationship with a childhood friend, whom i have known when we were going to kindergarten. We got separated when my parents have gotten job offers in another country, thus ...

Between a rock and a hard place!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 138 days ago

19 April 2008 (M) - Three people (all made up names) A.) me, James B.)cCurrent girl friend, Maddie C.)Ex-girl for like 7 times and maybe soon to be, Claire Preface: I am currently seeing a girl by the name of Maddie, I have an Ex-girlfriend named Claire and...

Why are guys so obsessed with breasts?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 129 days ago

19 April 2008 (F) - Why are guys so obsessed with breasts? It's unfair! I see so much naked boobs online, and the obsession with whose cleavage is hotter, this and that, and I feel inadequate! In a normal day I feel that my breasts look pretty, but then all this ...

At first he "felt sorry for me" but now he wants me! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 138 days ago

19 April 2008 (F) - I have known this guy since working with him during the week, and at first, when I was kinda having problems settling in etc, he took an interest in me cos he 'felt sorry' for me. I found him v supportive and felt great. Downside, I am 22, he's 33. ...

She won't respond to me so should I try again or just move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 137 days ago

19 April 2008 (M) - I recently got to know this girl who works near my place of work and we have spent a lot of time talking to each other up till midnight most days and during work time we constantly sent text messages to each other she new I wanted to be more than ...

I can't stop thinking about her but she seems distant. Do you think I should ask her out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 138 days ago

19 April 2008 (M) - hello. i;m madly in love with a girl that i work with. she likes me as a freind, but even then she sometimes seems distant or if she can't be bothered to talk to me. this is especially true when i leave work and say goodbye to her. she talks to...

I love my boyfriend but people say he's a hamster, so is he worth it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 137 days ago

19 April 2008 (F) - heyahh i love my boy friend so much but i get picked on and bullyed so bad that i have started self harming is it worth going out with my boyfriend? we went to the library today and 4 girls frm skwl came in and started having a go sayin i...

Does she mean it when she says she will give us another go when she is ready? How can I tell?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 138 days ago

19 April 2008 (M) - hi,i need some advice,me and my girlfriend have been split up for nearly 3 months and we have kept in touch mainly through txt,we split because i got abit too clingy and controlling and i think we got too serious and she wasnt ready for it,i met her ...

Why am I afraid of living with my boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 138 days ago

19 April 2008 (F) - My boyfriend asked me to move in with me today, and my reaction was to freak out! what should I do now and should i move in with him? we've been together 3 years, and he has been a good bf, supporting me in whatever i do. We've lived in a stude...

He's the cheese to my macaroni, I think I love him or am I just attached to him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 138 days ago

19 April 2008 (F) - hi all i have a question that most people have problems with figuring out. i feel that im in love with my boyfriend but could it just be that i have an attachment to him i feel like the happiest when im with him. ive had many boyfriends and each...

I think she may not have realised our meeting was a "date" - and I fear rejection in case I ask her out again. What would you do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 138 days ago

19 April 2008 (M) - Hello, here goes... last August I texted a girl(33) who goes to my church if she would like to go cinema or coffee sometime. She texted back that evening, agreed and we met one evening. We watched film, enjoyed a small meal and it occurred to me t...

Sometimes I wonder if he's been teased for liking me, as I'm not popular in college, so could it work out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 137 days ago

19 April 2008 (F) - Hey ok ive never had a bf before but to be hoenst never really wanted one. But i seriously love this lad who i'm friends with now theres times which are most of the time i just long to be with him but i also think he may like me back(me and a friend ...

How to let him know how I feel, should I be chatty, smiley and touchy-feely?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 137 days ago

19 April 2008 (F) - There is a man at work who i have feelings for and i am unsure wether his feelings are reciprocated! i want to give you the full story so you can make a judgement. when i first met this man i had a boyfriend but i felt as though he fancied me, d...

Does he like me or did my friend imagine it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 138 days ago

19 April 2008 (F) - hey everyone.. i have a problem.. there is this guy who comes to my place everyday to help my father and play with my kid brother..he's been coming for 6 whole months and i never noticed him.. one day a friend of mine came to my place when he wa...

My boyfriend wants a break but I can't cope...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 138 days ago

19 April 2008 (F) - me and my boyfriend have been going out about a month, i know its not too long but the connection between us is so strong. we've both been hurt before especially him who just broke up with his exgf. Its lasted about 1 year n 10 months she cheated ...

I'm stuck having feelings for 2 very different guys with different feelings for both...Do I go for mental or physical attraction?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 138 days ago

19 April 2008 (F) - I'm stuck having feelings for 2 very different guys with different feelings for both... I was with my ex boyfriend for a year, lived together, the relationship was more based around me being attracted to his personality than looks, and we ha...

Do I stay or do I go?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 138 days ago

19 April 2008 (F) - recently i met a lad who is afew months younger than me i am 18 and he is 17 wel he turns 18 this week we met in a pub i gave him my number and we arranged to meet up we met up and i really liked him we started goin out and then he finished with me ...

When I have developed the slightest feeling for a person, I find myself being unable to talk to them... help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 138 days ago

19 April 2008 (F) - Hello! I'm going to tell you my problem...I hope you can help me with this. I'm at college and recently I met this guy. He is 3 years older than me, he is a senior (i don't know if that's what you call someone whe is at the last year of univers...

He cancels dates and doesn't call me, only to act so nice and flirty afterwards, why?!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 138 days ago

19 April 2008 (F) - If a guy isn't interested in you anymore why does he keep coming back. There is this guy that clearly doesn't like me anymore but he still talks to me at work. He still kinda* flirts. But its obvious he doesn't want anything with me. Examples, he c...

Warning signs you're dating a loser!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

19 April 2008 (F) - I found this great information at: http://www.mental-health-matters.com/articles/article.php?artID=157 1. Rough Treatment "The Loser" will hurt you on purpose. If he or she hits you, twists your arm, pulls your hair, kicks you, shoves you, or ...

I want to ask her out but I'm not sure how or when I should do it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 134 days ago

19 April 2008 (M) - hey, prom is coming up and im going with a freind. there is this girl ive liked for quite a while, weve been freinds for years, recently she told me she likes me but still has feelings for a mutual freind of ours. i want to ask her out but im not ...

What are the signs that he likes me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 122 days ago

19 April 2008 (F) - ok so ive known this lad for just over a year now n i REALLY REALLY like him as a friend n recently felt much more for him! my feelings for him are really strong - im wondering if the feelings mutual? i mean, he texts me all the time, talks to me ...

Am I blinded by love for an older man?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 122 days ago

19 April 2008 (F) - Hi just need a bit of advice. Im almost 28 and im falling in love with a 43 year old man. Is a 15 year age gap really not and issue or am i just blinded by love? I have been in a fair few bad relationships over the years with guys my own age and ...

Why can't I cum when my boyfriend fingers me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 138 days ago

19 April 2008 (?) - Why don't I reach orgasm when my bf fingers me? It feels good at times but that feeling doesn't make me cum and my bf feels bad about it....

How can I ease my mind about my boyfriend going out of town? I feel so selfish!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 139 days ago

19 April 2008 (F) - My BF may be going away for a weekend (in like 2 more weeks) to some far away city, with his friends and classmates, for some school trip. They're going to be in these meetings with experts about psychology (he's in the Psychology program in his ...

My boyfriend is getting tired of my weeping, how do I overcome this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 138 days ago

19 April 2008 (F) - Ok, here's my problem: Ever since I was a little girl, I've been a "weeper". The thing is, I cry about a lot of things! When people argue with me, I cry. When people said mean stuff to me as a girl, I cried. My mom always told me I was too weak, ...

How do I give her an orgasm without a vibrator?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 119 days ago

19 April 2008 (M) - hi there,im in a long distance relationship with my and she occasionally talks about making love and related topics.we had sex once when we met last year,i didnt cum.neither did she and she says its very hard to make her cum.she said for me to use ...

When you are FWB and agree to be faithful, what is considered cheating?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 138 days ago

19 April 2008 (M) - OK, so I'm looking to see what you make of this... I'm with a girl, we arn't really going out, we're like friends with benefits, but we ended up agreeing to each other that we'd be faithful, and we both like each other, why we arn't going out ...

Stuck in the middle so please HELP!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 138 days ago

19 April 2008 (F) - ok i think im in love with these two really great guys and i need help choosing between them i dont know who i love more one guys new and the other one broke my heart but says hes willing to change what can i do to choose between them ????...

Is he being polite or is our attraction mutual?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 139 days ago

19 April 2008 (F) - But asks me how am I doing and stuff and keeps in touch (as friends I guess), so why do guys do this if they´re not interest. Is like he wants but at the same time he withdraws, so what up? I know he can be polite, but I don´t think someone ca...

He agreed to talk....what does this say about our relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 138 days ago

19 April 2008 (F) - question, I'm a christian, I dated someone for 3 years. now he can't handle it. he leaves. but when i wanted to meet with him to talk, he agreed. what do you think about this relationship?...

My boyfriend wants our relationship to be a "secret"! Why?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 139 days ago

19 April 2008 (F) - my boyfriend told me that he wants our relationship secret because i am not style and because its not the right time yet, he said it is ok to show it and let other people know our relationship when he already retire in managing his own company....i ...

Should we call it quits if he's not sure if we should move in together?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 138 days ago

19 April 2008 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 2 years i'm moving out in January and he still doesnt know if we're ready to live together? If he's still unsure after two years do you think we should call it quits?? Thanks!...

Am I a minority here?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 139 days ago

19 April 2008 (F) - Am i in the minority here? I get bored of men after a few months. We can email, meet up, text and i keep them at arms length, and then, i just get bored. Everything stops. No more emails, i send a couple of texts when i have nothing else to ...