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Dating: Help and advice

He made me "do it" and I wasn't ready...

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5585 days ago

1 April 2008 (?) - dear cupids. I've got a real problem! I'm in a bad situation but I feel like I've caused it myself :S I have been *seeing* this guy, (a friend of my brother) who is aged 18, for 9 months, I am 15, 16 in May, and he is my *first love*, he's ...

My boss, his girlfriend... and me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5878 days ago

1 April 2008 (F) - I know it's a horrible cliche, but I really fancy my boss. I've worked part time on and off at the same store since I was 16, all the way through until now. I'm just about to graduate univerisity, so I'll probably start working full time over s...

I feel lonely when all my friends talk to me about their boyfriends...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5879 days ago

1 April 2008 (F) - hey everyone!!!first i would like to tell u somethin about myself i am 19 years old nd i had a boy friend who i broke with i dumped him,and many guys approached me for a realtionship but i wasnt ready because i felt they were not right for me..now ...

Stuck in a relationship with an alcoholic, is my reason to stay a valid one?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5879 days ago

1 April 2008 (F) - I hate my boyfriend more and more each day. I dont know why I am with him. maybe its because I dont want to be a mom who has men in and out of my daughters life. but then again he isnt her father and it isnt really fair to subject her to him. I ...

She's a violent "slob" ! But....am I a bully?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5879 days ago

1 April 2008 (M) - As unbiased and truthful as it happened. Im in a relationship, 90% of the time its fine, we have our normal ups and downs as every one does. But everynow and again things get blown out of proportion. She's not the tidiest of people and Im wil...

All we ever talk about is sex so do we really love each other?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5879 days ago

1 April 2008 (F) - I am in a relationship with a guy since last yr. We are very attracted to each other and we love each other. However, most of the time all we talk about is sex or having sex. Is there anything wrong with it? Or How do we figure out if its physical ...

Could you be mates with an ex that still owes you money?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5879 days ago

1 April 2008 (F) - Hi If you offered to lend someone 5 grand because they said their remortgage was definately coming through in 2 weeks(their broker assured them) Then they got refused the remortgage :o? would you be a bit brassed off about it? I mean, if you spli...

I'm 14 and need advice to get the girl of my dreams, help please?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5867 days ago

1 April 2008 (M) - hello i am 14 years old and i have never had a girlfriend. i fancy this girl but am too scared to ask her out or even ask for her msn address. what should i do? please help!...

I get what I wanted, and now I'm not sure. Is this normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5879 days ago

1 April 2008 (F) - I am almost 30 (yikes!) and recently single for the first time in my adult life. I was in a terrible marriage for nine years, which I have three little girls from, and then in another fairly serious relationship for two years right after my ex ...

I don't know what approach to take with him, I am interested but is he?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5879 days ago

1 April 2008 (F) - I've been getting mixed feelings from this guy. One minute he's there and the next minute he's gone. Recently he went to jail for a traffic violation. Before then we talked frequently and spent time together. When he went away for the 2 wks he had ...

How do I pursue a real relationship with a background like this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5878 days ago

1 April 2008 (F) - My problem is I have been meeting the wrong dudes since the 9th grade and all they wanted was sex. I was young and naive and just wanted to see what sex felt like so I ended up opening up my legs to a bunch of ugly horndogs. Then the whole school ...

Are we more than friends and he's just waiting for my divorce to be final or am I reading too much into it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5879 days ago

1 April 2008 (F) - I have been best friends with a man for about 1.5 years now. I am separated from my husband for over a year (live in difft cities) and he is single and has very old-fashioned values. He will only date a woman that is single, divorced or widowed. ...

Should I trust him even though he has admitted he cheated on his ex while with the same group of mates that he might be meeting up with tonight?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5879 days ago

1 April 2008 (F) - Hey everyone, I don't know what to do. I have a problem. I love my boyfriend very much and he says he loves me and wants to marry me. We have been together for six months but he has admitted that he cheated on his ex with a girl that he is meeting ...

What causes relationships to fail?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5858 days ago

1 April 2008 (?) - This post is more of a page of a chapter on good communication in a relationship. The idea is to post examples of what makes poor communication. I believe poor communication is the root of most problems in relationships, if not all. Things said ...

Should I be more assertive?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5879 days ago

1 April 2008 (M) - Hey, I have been in a relationship for about two and a half months with a really great girl. However just recently she is now asking me to take down a poster of a girl I have. Now I know my relationship is more than a poster, I just don't want ...

How can I assure him I won't leave?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5879 days ago

1 April 2008 (F) - I've met this man 18 years older than me while I was divorcing my husband. He treats me very nice and supportive. My life is back on track now. He says he can be my dad and worry I will leave him for a younger man. I love him and feel good being ...

I love him but the way the relationship is going is making me unhappy... I want a little more from him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5879 days ago

1 April 2008 (F) - Hi!! me and my boyfriend have been together for just over a year now, when we first got together he was wonderful always took me out always paid me compliments and so on.. but now none of this happend it was my birthday on saturday and he said that ...

How do I tell my best friend to back off and let me try to have a relationship with this boy that I think she's also attracted to?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5879 days ago

1 April 2008 (F) - Me and my best mate have known each other for 4 years and were really close, we tell each other everything. we are both mates with this lad, and recently he has been flirty with me, been texting me and we are becoming close - to the point where we ...

Why is it I only like guys when they don't show me interest and have moved onto someone else?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5879 days ago

1 April 2008 (F) - hey my problem is i dont like guys who hit on me instead i like guys who dont care for me or who dont ask me out..earlier a guy lets call him jack was crazy about me but i rejected him and he moved on but since he started seeing this girl lets call ...

Any got any tips on how to flirt?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5879 days ago

1 April 2008 (F) - How can I flirt, I know about smiling but that is useless because i smile at everyone. I am in a wheelchair so I can't stand up and lie near guys or sit on their knee. How else can I flirt?...

I don't receive unique presents from my BF! How do I ask him about the duplicate order I have seen without appearing ungrateful or nosey?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5879 days ago

1 April 2008 (F) - I don't know what to think about my boyfriend's actions. I have known him about 3 years now. When I first met him and we were getting to know each other I was telling him that an ex of mine had upset me because he used to buy his Mother similar ...

I want more but he just wants to be friends, why?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5870 days ago

1 April 2008 (F) - I need some advise please, I met a guy we were seeing eatch other for a few months, then al of the sudden he tells me he only want to be friends he is not ready for a relationship. A few months ago I ran into a guy that I know for 2 years he told me ...

Commitment issues, or still in love with his ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5879 days ago

1 April 2008 (F) - I've been dating a guy exclusively for about 3 months now. I want things to become more serious (i.e. boyfriends) but he is so hesitant. He's confided in me that his relationship with his ex has impacted him greatly, even though their relationship ...

Help! I am seriously clueless when it comes to dating?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5879 days ago

1 April 2008 (F) - Hello! I am seriously clueless when it comes to dating. Just got out of a long term relationship. I'm gonna make This as short as possible. So I saw the guy I like on Fri. A bunch of us went out to dinner for his brothers bday. I am close to his ...

She dumped me over the phone! Why?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5880 days ago

1 April 2008 (M) - We dated for six months and she ended up dumping me over the phone 5 minutes before I had to be at work with no reason. It was over a year ago this happened but i've always wondered why. We only talked for about a week after this and I asked her ...

I'm going out with a guy that seems to think I'm with someone else! Can I still start a life with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5880 days ago

1 April 2008 (M) - Dear cupid: I have this guy who's very sweet and he's reall really hot. But for some reason he tells me that he feels that i don't give much attention to him.I have a seven month relationship with him we met in this online game so we started datin...

Was he complimenting me or the background behind me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5879 days ago

1 April 2008 (F) - I send this guy some pictures of me in a trip I made to the Egypt. And he said he had never been there, so he hoped I'd enjoy it for both of us. Then he said" Thanks for the pictures; very beautiful" Did he meant the background or did he included ...

I let him know my feelings, did I blow it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5879 days ago

1 April 2008 (F) - Before the guy I Iike left for a training job he's doing in Europe, I kinda let him know my feelings to him. Not directly, but more like for him to catch the idea. I told him that not many people can care for him as me a silly girl does. And he r...

I have feelings for a guy from same strict religious circle which would forbid our love, what can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5880 days ago

1 April 2008 (F) - Hi i am an 18 year old gal. So theres this guy (28 Years). ive known him for about 5 years and we've been really good friends ever since. Recently, I've developed feelings for him and i think he has for me too. But we both come from the same strict ...

My boyfriend of 5 months broke up with me and now I'm a mess. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5880 days ago

1 April 2008 (F) - so my boyfriend of 5 months broke up with me and its been almost a month and im still not over him. he said we could be friends and he wanted to be like a brother to me but now he doesnt even talk to me and is a complete jerk. then there's this...

I love him..help me please?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5879 days ago

1 April 2008 (F) - Have u ever now someone for a long time and then all of a sudden yall dont talk any more. Than a few years later yall become the best of friends again and closer than ever. What do u do? What do we say to each other? How do u tell them how u feel ...

Long Distance Relationship - Help Please

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5880 days ago

1 April 2008 (M) - Dear all, I've known a girl for close to a year but because we live in different countries, the relationship has been maintained over the Internet. We will be in the same country in a few months time and that's what we've been planning for. ...

Is it dishonest to be seeing more than one person without discussing it with the other parties?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5880 days ago

1 April 2008 (F) - I've never really just dated before. So far my relationships have been monogomous and long-term. However, for the first time I am finding myself dating two men. I like them both and am trying to avoid being with one person again until I'm sure it ...

Our communication is not as intense as it was at first, 'honeymoon period' over or something deeper?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5880 days ago

1 April 2008 (F) - Hello everyone. Just wondering if I could get a few opinions from some of you. My boyfriend and I have been hitting a little bit of a rough patch lately. When we first started dating, we saw each other very often, text messaged every day, numer...

Love Over The Internet: Possible Or Not?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4953 days ago

1 April 2008 (F) - Here I have two problems. I'm in love with a guy. Trouble is, we've never met. We met over the internet. We can talk about anything and everything and see each other on webcam a lot. We aren't going to meet until I'm legally an adult, which is a ...

Iam 20 could I date my sisters friend although she is 4 years younger?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5859 days ago

1 April 2008 (M) - I am 20 years old, and I have a crush on one of my sister's friends who is only 15, almost 16. I have liked this girl for a long time, but not until recently did I start having strong feelings for her. Now, I have never dated before, and I don't kn...

My girlfriend loves someone else, shoul I break up with her?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5768 days ago

1 April 2008 (M) - I have been with my gf for over 4 years, recently my gf meet a guy and had a serious crush on him, the guy knowing definately well that the girl has fallen for him has inturn started playing with my gf minds, now it seems she love him. we have ...

All my friends are dating, should I worry that I don't have a boyfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5834 days ago

1 April 2008 (F) - hey again you guys have been so much help to me.. well here i am writting again i have so much things on my mind right about now i want to date and have a bf.. but the embarassing secret is that i only had 2 boyfriends throughout my whole ent...

I love her but I feel she is ignoring me sometimes or am I being too clingy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5880 days ago

1 April 2008 (M) - I have this amazing girl she's honest and will never cheat on me i love her with my life but lately i feel less needed by her. Not too long ago we had a brake but were now back together she says that she loves me and i always say the same i plan on ...