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Should I just be patient and wait for his call?

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Question - (30 April 2008) 5 Answers - (Newest, 1 May 2008)
A female New Zealand age 16-17, anonymous writes:

Hi, I just recently got back from a vacation where i met an absolutly wonderful guy. He wrote me a little letter before we left, and we were romantically involved.

He gave me his cell number, even though it went into the ocean and doesn't work. I also have his house number which i found on my own. I emailed him and it's been a little more than 24 hours since i did.

I'm sure he'll get back to me, but i just don't know if i should call his house and ask for him, even though he didn't give me the number and i got it myself, or should i just wait it out?

Thanks for the help.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (1 May 2008):

hey this is the writer and i would like to let everyone that replied to the message that shortly after i wrote this he called me so thanks for your help but everything is going great...

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A female reader, sarcy24 United Kingdom + , writes (1 May 2008):

sarcy24 agony auntDefinitely do not call his house number as this will look like you are a bit needy and are chasing him. He didn't give this to you. As the other posts have said he will be in the process of getting a new cell phone so just keep trying that ( once a day is fine!). If you don't hear within a week e-mail again and if you get no response this time then don't bother anymore. I am sure you will hear from him soon and keep yourself busy until then,

Good luck and all the best.

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A male reader, Sisyphus Australia +, writes (1 May 2008):

I agree with the previous posters, calling him on his home number is probably going to creep him out and make you look obsessive and desperate.

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A female reader, Ask oldersister United States +, writes (30 April 2008):

Ask oldersister agony auntNo, dear, you do not call his home. He did not give you that number and you do not have his permission to call it, it's disrespectful and it will probably creep him out, okay? You are just going to have to wait. If you don't hear from him after about a week, you can always email him again but I would leave it at that if he doesn't respond.

In the meantime, try to keep busy!

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A male reader, PeterPan United States + , writes (30 April 2008):

PeterPan agony auntTry the cell number he gave you (having his home number might seem a little creepy if he didn't give to you himself, know what I mean?). If the phone isn't working by now, he's probably replaced it. Either you'll get a private line to him and at worst, his voice-mail to leave a message.

Good luck!!

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