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Archived questions from: 5 April, 2008 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

I want to sneak my boyfriend over when my mom is away...any tips on how to not get caught?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5875 days ago

5 April 2008 (F) - my mum is going away for a few days and am wantin to have my bf down to stay over. we've both agreed on not rushin into anything and takin things slow but am on the pill already the only thing am worryin about is my grandparents as they dont know am ...

How do you make a relationship work if it doesn't come naturally?

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5 April 2008 (F) - Does getting back together with an ex ever really work? My ex and I dated for 2 and 1/2 yrs; broke up six months ago. We did the distance thing - no talking for two months, then some phone calls, then another 2.5 months no talking. He cal...

Should I wait for my military man or cut it off? What do you think?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5875 days ago

5 April 2008 (F) - I'm getting depressed , My crush is military and recently deployed right now, he's stationed far from where I am. Before he left, I email him wishing luck and asked him a rhetorical question as how many people does he know that care for him as I...

Is my girlfriend a SEX ADDICT?!! Can I trust someone like her?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4211 days ago

5 April 2008 (M) - Hello i have been dating my girlfriend for about 2 months now, i have heard some weird things about her in those past 2 months that i haven't heard about before, she has had sex at least 30 times before me and her started dating and she still talks ...

I have a secret gay relationship with my friend, who is bisexual - and in an official relation with a girl. Scared he will eventually choose her over me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

5 April 2008 (M) - I'm 16, gay, but havent told anyone.. I recently started to get real close with my friend, he is also my age, we go to the same college, we actually havent been friends for that long, only about 3 months, but we actually became like best friend...

There is a girl I like and I want to tell her everything I want to do but she lives too far away!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5831 days ago

5 April 2008 (M) - Ok there's this girl that i like, She's 2 years older than me, we txt alot and say things like have fun at school and i love you and xoxo but i want to go up another level in love but she lives on the central coast and im in sydney so its hard to go ...

I like two guys, one of them likes me but I don't like him as much as the other one. What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5876 days ago

5 April 2008 (F) - I like 2 guys. lets call one guy * and the other guy $. So, i like $ way more than * but i still like *. I'm bestfriends with *. Im going over his house(just the 2 of us) from 1230 til like 7 tomorrow. he sometimes acts like he likes me but then he ...

I really like him. I'm not sure how he feels. I'm confused. Help.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5851 days ago

5 April 2008 (F) - I really like this guy. He is so sweet and cute and is always flirting with me. He always compliments me (like with my shirt being low cut and my boobs) And he tells me things like - " you know that the lower a girl's shirt is the more attracted a ...

I want another baby, he doesn't. I feel like he doesn't love me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5872 days ago

5 April 2008 (F) - i have been with my boyfriend for 9 years i have a 15 year old and he has a 12 year old i want to have a baby but he dosnt i feel resentment that he has had what i want with someone else but dosnt want with me.i dont know whether i should split up ...

Can this type of girl be trusted?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5876 days ago

5 April 2008 (M) - Can a girl who is engaged, but dates other guys, including making out, be trusted?...

Her fiance is overseas but she acts VERY interested! Will I get hurt?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5875 days ago

5 April 2008 (M) - This is very confusing ... we have known each other for about 6 months but only started spending some time together in past few weeks. I don't think this is the typical male thing of misinterpreting a woman who is simply being friendly - suddenly we ...

He was looking for a girl to marry and "magic" happened- but now is he lost forever?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5876 days ago

5 April 2008 (F) - i'v been engaged to someone i'v just met, we accidentally met at my freinds' party he was looking for a girl to marry, thats when the magic happend he loved me from the first sight, i also felt the same way ,although he wasn't my type, he told my...

Are older girls more attractive or just out of my league?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5876 days ago

5 April 2008 (M) - This is my first time doing this, and here's my problem: I find myself really attracted to an older girl who's about 5 years older than me. She's just about to finish her undergraduate degree while i'm in my first year in college. I find her incre...

Should I let him go completely even though he really needs me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5876 days ago

5 April 2008 (F) - I am in such a dilemma! I am a 21 yr old woman and this dilemma has been going on for a few years now. When my dad was a child and his parents has died,this family consisted of 2 parents, 2 sons and 2 daughters and the parents looked after my dad ...

He teaches at a different school, so does that still make it illegal?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5746 days ago

5 April 2008 (?) - Hey everyone, i just need a little bit of advice, so here is my problem: I am 16 and the guy i like is 27, and my friend told me that he likes me too (i met him through her). I found out that he's a teacher, and i know that it is illegal for ...

I really want my ex-girlfriend to understand me, so we can be friends again. Can you help, please?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5876 days ago

5 April 2008 (?) - I have a really messy situation with my ex g/f. I could use some advice. Bit of a back story, so i'll cut it short. We dated when we were younger about 4/5 years ago....she was really into me..i was off in lala land and didn't know what the he...

How do I know when my boyfriend means it when he says he loves me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5876 days ago

5 April 2008 (F) - I really, really like my boyfriend. Hes really lovely and perfect to me. weve been goign otu for nearly a month and its all been great, ive shown him that i appreciate him by buying him a small gift. but how do i no that he really likes me? and a...

After just 2 dates, he's saying he loves me, I find this a bit alarming. Would you???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5876 days ago

5 April 2008 (F) - I met a guy online on RSVP and we went on 2 dates. it turns out we actually have some mutual friends and have been to a lot of the same parties so were not complete strangers after all. The thing that bothers me is that after only 2 dates he has s...

Sleeping with my best friend who's getting married

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5853 days ago

5 April 2008 (F) - I have a bestfriend whom i've fallen in love with 3 years ago. When I asked him what our status was, he said we are "bestfriends-with-benefits." Stupid, but i stayed on even after he said that. When he had a gf, we stopped and decided just to ...

Why is my date not contacting me now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5876 days ago

5 April 2008 (M) - I met a friend through a friend, and we went out to a club where he asked for my number saying that he'll be inviting some friends over and would like me to come too. Anyways I couldn't make it, then later that week he asked to go for drinks which...

Please tell me how to flirt!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5835 days ago

5 April 2008 (F) - I feel so clueless when it comes to flirting, because I never seem to know what to say. I can be awkward at times so there are awkward silences. But generally, can you guys just give me some pointers on how to flirt? Do what I say always have to be ...

Is my younger girlfriend cheating?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5875 days ago

5 April 2008 (M) - I am 48 (look 38) and dating a 28 year old former stripper who manages apartments. We have been dating a year and a half and have lived together for one year. Her mother recently died. After the funeral, she explained to me that she suddenly does ...

How do I not be insecure when there are hotter girls than me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5531 days ago

5 April 2008 (F) - I've always felt insecure about my looks (never been considered pretty or hot). My BF thinks I'm hot. However, he's also said that there are hot chicks everywhere. Now I'm more insecure. He gets mad if I go on about feeling insecure. He said hot ...

I'm not his "ideal" because he says I'm too skinny! Should I still tell him how I feel?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5876 days ago

5 April 2008 (F) - I have a roommate who is 37 and I am 22. He and I are both seperated from our spouses. My husband (soon to be ex) will be 40 in November 2008. Now I am a tall skinny girl and he is a bit bigger than average and I am attracted to him both physically, ...

Was he letting me down easy before he went to Europe?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5876 days ago

5 April 2008 (F) - And don't want to make myself false expectations. But before the guy I love left for a training job he's doing in Europe, I kinda let him know my feelings to him. Not directly, but more like for him to catch the idea. I told him that not many peo...

My boyfriend talks about himself in "3rd" person! Why is he like this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5807 days ago

5 April 2008 (F) - Can someone please help me I dont understand what is going on. My b/f was sweet nice n down to earth. Now he talks about himself n 3rd person. Every single person we see on the street he makes fun of for some reason. He tells me I'm chuby, have a ...

Is it really the end or is he just stressed out with school?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5876 days ago

5 April 2008 (F) - My boyfriend of one year has just broken up with me and I'm devastated. It was completely out of the blue so I'm still in shock. Up until very recently things were going really well, we were crazy about each other. He started a really inten...

I am a straight female very attracted to my bisexual male friend- could this be love?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5662 days ago

5 April 2008 (F) - I am currently a straight female very attracted to my bisexual male friend. Although I really feel bad awhile back when he was testing the waters by replying awhile back that I only go for straight people. I had not realized he has been attracted ...

My "virgin" girlfriend says some pretty shocking things! Is she for real?!!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5820 days ago

5 April 2008 (M) - My Brand new GF has told me that she is a virgin and says she wants to wait to see if she finds that special person to give herself to. she told me she has done genital to genital(no penetration just rubbing), and has given Blowjobs. I believe her ...

Am I too picky about girls? Am I really asking for too much?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5877 days ago

5 April 2008 (M) - Am i asking for too much in a girl? I want a girl who is cute, and doesnt have to be reassured all the time that she is yet isnt full of herself. She has to be loyal and honest, good sense of humor and likes to just relax around the house some n...

Where can I meet girls? I'm 20yrs old and need some ideas!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5876 days ago

5 April 2008 (M) - Where or how would be the best place for a 20yr old to meet a girl? I dont go to college, and i probably could get into a few bars around here but thats not my style, i work with my family at a family run store, so no luck with other girls. ...

What do you do with a boyfriend who cheats and talks bad about you?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5854 days ago

5 April 2008 (F) - What do you do if you date a guy and have been with him for almost 3 years that tells you he loves you and only you,but he talks behind your back and sees other women he leaves and doesn't call for days then calls back and makes excuses and denies ...

I'm "confused" about continuing a relationship with a guy who lies!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5876 days ago

5 April 2008 (F) - dear cupid i am in love with this guy for about two months now.he lie to me by tellin me he has one child ,when he figure out i no he lie he tell me he has three.from ever since that i no he was gonna continue to tell me more lies.his...

Is there any way to be in a relationship with your teacher without any problems?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5844 days ago

5 April 2008 (F) - Okay lets say you love your teacher and then you find out he loves you back....cant there be someway for the two to be together with out any problems??...

I had an affair and I love him.

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

5 April 2008 (F) - Last year i had an affair with a married man and too this day i am still in love with him. i have never been able to get over him and i know for a fact he loved me aswell. I have decided to write him a letter but as if its wrote to his wife. SO he ...

In love with my 'Doc', we're both married but I think he wants more. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5876 days ago

5 April 2008 (F) - I've been in love with my doc and we have become frineds over the last 6 months. He's called me a few times and I see him out and about sometimes. I've known him for 8 years. We are both married, but I think he wants something more and I know I ...

Guys, would you be turned off if a girl had someone else's name tattooed on her?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5876 days ago

5 April 2008 (?) - I have a bf that doesnt trust me at all, and i got his initials tattooed on myself.........i really love him, but i dont know if it's going to work out.....guy out there..would you be turned off about the idea of a girl with someonelses name on ...