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Archived questions from: 4 April, 2008 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

How do I gain my boyfriend's trust?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 190 days ago

4 April 2008 (?) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for 5 months now, and he says he doesnt trust me, I really love him but dont know if I cant gain someones trust? Can someone help on this, and tell me what to do?...

My live-in boyfriend seems to be leading his ex on! I'm confused!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 190 days ago

4 April 2008 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 2 and a half years. We met after he moved to my town, away from where he had a very good group of mates so i try to be very accepting that he needs ties with them and we visit whenever possible. We live together...

New relationship involves a lot of DRAMA.....how do I work through this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 188 days ago

4 April 2008 (F) - Please help, this is the question.. Does she really want this?? This is the problem... me and my girlfriend have been dating around 10 months.... at first it was great! we had fun and were happy.... the "honeymoon period" is now well and truly o...

Why do men not call after the first few dates?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 171 days ago

4 April 2008 (F) - Why do men, after a few dates and telling you how nice you are, suddenly never call you again??...

Is it okay to be "boy crazy" at my age?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 190 days ago

4 April 2008 (?) - Is it ok to be a little boy crazy ? like loving one boy . Liking two... and thinking 2 more are very cute . Is it wrong to flirt with all of them ??? tell me what you think ( thanks in advance ) *~VG~*...

He said he was interested but he's not acting like it! So, should I confront him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 190 days ago

4 April 2008 (F) - I am 35 year old single mom. I met this man at a local restaurant and became instantly interested. He is 26 years old. I had a mutual friend get his number for me and I sent him a text message and asked if he was married. We began to speak,he called ...

I am a single mom and would like to attract more male attention! Any tips?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 188 days ago

4 April 2008 (F) - I am 39 year old woman with two children. I'm not in a relationship at the moment, and haven't been for six years. I don't go out much as I can't afford it. I haven't got a lot of confidence in myself and become very nervous around men who I am ...

I'm ready to settle down but he isn't.....will our long-term goals tear us apart?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 189 days ago

4 April 2008 (F) - Need advice My bf is 32, i'm 27 and we've been together for almost a year. We are great together, we make each other laugh, spend a lot of time together, met each other's families and friends and basically all the ingredients of a good relation...

He wants to just be "friends" even though he flirts with me....any tips on changing his mind?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 186 days ago

4 April 2008 (F) - There's a guy that goes to college with me. he's 25 and i'm about to be 19. we get on really well, and have this flirty manner towards each other. i asked him out back in january not knowing he'd just broke up with his 5 year long gf. he told me ...

Why do I keep choosing "mommy's boys" ?! How can I pick stronger guys?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 190 days ago

4 April 2008 (F) - im 28 and i have trouble keeping a boyfriend as ive had 3 long term relationships its not me but the chaps i choose are weak mummys boys where am i going wrong they all says im not the problem i need some help here...

A story called Love.....am I lost for good?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 190 days ago

4 April 2008 (M) - I was 17, she was 15. We snuck away to a field near my moms house. Under the stars on an old sleeping bag Id had since Boy Scouts we Both made love for the first time. We fell asleep in that field that night and as you might figure, awoke to angry ...

I'm having casual sex with my gay best friend, is this okay?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 161 days ago

4 April 2008 (F) - Got myself in to a bit of a pickle. I have a best friend - we'll call him Harry. He's gay and for years he has always sort of been my "gay best friend." We do everything together and everyone has always joked we're like a couple. We stay over at ...

My relationship is an emotional roller coaster...he keeps yelling at me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 190 days ago

4 April 2008 (F) - So me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost a year. At first everything was great and he was so sweet and always there for me. Now he yells all the time and tells me what I'm suppose to do and I better do it. He dont want me to talk to anyone ...

Is it common to lose your sex drive after being with your partner awhile?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 190 days ago

4 April 2008 (F) - i have lost my sex drive, i love my partner very much but i cant get horny with her. we have been together for 2 years. is it common to loose your sex drive when with someone a while?? ...

After we broke up she "learned a few new things"! Having a hard time getting over the "she waited for me like a saint"! What do you think?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 190 days ago

4 April 2008 (M) - I'm a 24yr old male who has been with a girl since the 5th grade from puppy love to high school sweethearts. This girl has always loved me ever since I can remember but I have always taken her for granted. Not because I don't care for her but ...

I'm scared she won't take me seriously unless I go to the extremes... any advice?!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 190 days ago

4 April 2008 (M) - I'm going to really cut a long story short. About a year ago I fell in love with this absoutley amazing woman, as everyone says when they fall in love, yet I couldn't tell her due to our situations. In July last year I commented that I was really ...

How do I treat this meeting with ex school friend I like?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 190 days ago

4 April 2008 (F) - I've been talking to this lad online(from school)for years now, we talk everynight and have alot in common. He went to my old school, so i know him pretty well. The other night he asked me if we wanted to meet up somewhere(just us two), but i'm ...

Why am I not able to like someone and have them like me back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 190 days ago

4 April 2008 (F) - Hey, Here's my (slightly confusing) situation: I'm 20 and I've never had a boyfriend, never even kissed a guy or anything. Until about half a year ago, I had *major* confidence and shyness issues, and also I never bothered about my appearan...

What to do when he is the other woman???? He dresses like a woman... this is a passion-killer.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 163 days ago

4 April 2008 (F) - WHAT TO DO WHEN HE’S THE OTHER WOMAN Last year I dated nearly 20 men. Thrice married and failed I wanted to do it right this time, after all, I'm 55. I met a verile, intelligent, talented man. He's 51, a bronc rider and professional cou...

How could he fancy me, when everyone says I'm ugly?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 123 days ago

4 April 2008 (F) - in the past ive been told by most people that im ugly and i believe them. ive got a horrible face, a huge nose, horrible eyebrows n im fat too. but now there is 1 lad (who is a lil older than me) who texts me a lot and tells me he thinks im gorgeous ...

Before we got serious he was also sleeping with someone else from work and I have only recently found this out. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 190 days ago

4 April 2008 (F) - I have been seeing someone for over a year now and for the last 4-5 months we have become serious. I work with him and our relationship has devolped into a very loving serious one. The best I have ever had and he says it is for him too. The problem ...

Need some interesting topics that we can talk about??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 190 days ago

4 April 2008 (M) - uhm...i need advice AGAIN...well theres a girl that i chat with everyday!!i need sime topics interesting topics that we can talk about??i also want to talk about naughty stuff but not to naughty??help on that please!!because i dont want to give her ...

It was just like a scene from a movie, help me make it real please!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 190 days ago

4 April 2008 (F) - There is this guy in one of my university lectures who always seems to sit in the row in front of me. The other day we had what I would describe as a 'tpyical movie like scene'. I dropped my books onto the floor (by accident!) and I was about to ...

How do I ask my ex manager out without him freaking out?... He seems insecure.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 191 days ago

4 April 2008 (F) - hi everyone! so, i like this reali amazing guy... hes turning 22 and im 18, he used to work with me, he was my manager and lately weve become great friends, hes different from others his age - hes straight edge, intellectual i mean he runs a ...

My boyfriend is a hermit! Why is he hiding our relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 191 days ago

4 April 2008 (F) - this is my first boyfriend and i have to admit...the circumstances are very annoying. his mother doesn't let him out of the house - EVER. he spends his weekends AT HOME watching TV or playing on the computer. and of course..like any 16 year old guy ...

Is it because of my ex I have problems with my new guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 188 days ago

4 April 2008 (F) - I just got of a cheating relationship. I'm seeing a new guy and he tells me he's coming over after he does his homework....I think he's lieing...but he wasn't my friend dates his roommate and he as there the whole time doing his work. Today he said ...

I am 20 and too shy to tell my professor I have a crush on him, advice please?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 190 days ago

4 April 2008 (F) - I am 20 years old, in college, and I have a huge crush on my professor. It wasn't a big deal at first, he was just good looking and really funny. But then slowly it developed into this big crush that now I cannot stop thinking about him. I think ...

What is the most that a teacher can do with a student??

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 190 days ago

4 April 2008 (F) - Hi...i was wondering: What is the most that a teacher can do with a student???? Are relationships illegal, even if you are about the same age????...

It seems I have a lot of insecurities. Can I get advice on how to control these feelings?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 191 days ago

4 April 2008 (M) - I'm fairly confident with girls, that isn't the issue. I've met one that I have been dating for about 4 months, and damn I want to keep her for a long time. It seems I have a lot of insecurities; I have that 'natural jealousy' when she talks abou...

Is there a way to practice going down on a girl before actually doing it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 191 days ago

4 April 2008 (M) - Is there a way to practice going down on a girl before doing it?...

Am I wrong to be pissed at her and hurt?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 191 days ago

4 April 2008 (M) - Am i right to be pissed off? So this girl who i am basically dating (we kiss, hug, cuddle, hang out all the time) but arent official because for some reason she needs time, i found today that she is possibly dating another guy. She has been go...

I just want to "fall pregnant" !!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 189 days ago

4 April 2008 (F) - I know i'm only young but i'm in love with my boyfriend...but there's a problem, i love him too much, i hate it when i'm not with him, and i miss him uncontrolably!! He's someone who really understands me and i trust him compleatly! But i had a preg...

I don't want commitment but this girl does, do you think I should tell her that?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 190 days ago

4 April 2008 (M) - Hello hello. Battling with a few things in my love life and i'd appreciate some other peoples views on it. Basicly 2 years ago i felt ways for a girl that id never felt before, closest thing to love i've ever felt, but there was a messy break up a...

He tells them EVERYTHING he does with me!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 190 days ago

4 April 2008 (F) - My boyfriend (same age) and I have been going out for a couple of months now and we're pretty close. Needless to say, he's practically my best friend. And vice versa...or not. You see, we have mutual "girl"friends and we all sorta have this huge ...

All my friends have girlfriends and I don't, it's really depressing me. Please help.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 190 days ago

4 April 2008 (M) - All my friends have gf's and like they are always together, but i dont. I feel so lonely and it really hurts, they all have someone to love them but i dont, and its starting to make me depressed. I'm so shy around girls i cant talk to them like othe...

I want know if he likes me, what do you think?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 190 days ago

4 April 2008 (F) - i met a guy through my bestfriend. they work together and she has known him a long time. he came over a few days ago to hangout with me, her and her boyfriend. we were all drinking and he ended up stayin the night. although he could have slept on t...

I love being with him 24/7 so how do I make him care?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 191 days ago

4 April 2008 (F) - I have been dating this guy for almost 3 months, and we talk about our future and we talk about moving away together.... When we got together he smoked pot everyday more than 4 times a day....more than 6 times a day! He eventually saw how much it ...

I think I depend on my boyfriend too much!! How do I stop being so clingy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 137 days ago

4 April 2008 (F) - I'm really down. I feel like I depend on my boyfriend too much. I really love him and he's so important to me. But I hate that I think so much about him and that I rely on him so much. To the point that when he gets mad at me, I get really, really ...

I love her but feel that it might be hard to trust her again.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 191 days ago

4 April 2008 (M) - Hey guys, Ive been goin out with my g/f for 1 year 1 month now, apart from in december when we had a break, which on the whole was successful. I knew she fancied another guy in this time and had "pecked" him. I found out recently that they had se...