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Dating: Help and advice

What does it take to get the guy you like to ask you out?!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 182 days ago

12 April 2008 (F) - What does it take to get the guy you like to ask you out? Say if you think he's been keen, but your not so sure, he's kinda pushing you to say something or say it first? what does it take for me to get him to ask me out? im tired of chasi...

Is it a good sign or bad if he postponed the answer to my invitation?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 180 days ago

12 April 2008 (F) - hi guys.i have asked this guy out that i really like.i think about him all day and like him for personality and looks.he ahs been flirting with me too.i asked him out and he said he would think about it and tell me on monday.is this a good thing or ...

I doubt either of us was ready for a relation when we got together. I also fear he won't be able to provide stability and at times I regret my ex!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 182 days ago

12 April 2008 (F) - Hello I'm in such a mess. My ex boyfriend split up with me at the start of last year because we both had commitment issues and didn't trust each other. Neither of us were unfaithful but we were both unable to let our barriers down at the same time...

Part of me feels I should telephone to explain, but the other part wants him to pursue me... any ideas?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 182 days ago

12 April 2008 (F) - Met a guy on an internet chat site. We've been in contact for nearly six months,nothing heavy, extremely casual.But due to his work commitments and the distance it has been difficult to meet up. Today he texted me and said he was going to be coming ...

Am I a one-night-stand for her?? Oh, I wish I didn't have sex with her that quickly!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 179 days ago

12 April 2008 (M) - hey people! Here's my issue. I met this girl on an on-line dating site here in Spain. We had one date- and things got along fairly well. She seemed really intelligent (teaches at university) and not at all boring to talk to. I had some...

Do you think his nervous habits when paying me compliments are signs that he's just lying?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 182 days ago

12 April 2008 (F) - I would like to ask for the opinions of the aunts and uncles here about a man I am becoming very fond of who works in my neighborhood. We work in totally different places but met a few months back and have become quite friendly. I feel a strong ...

I feel this is not a healthy relation for an active and social person like me, should I continue with my live-in BF?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 181 days ago

12 April 2008 (F) - I live with my boyfriend of four years but I am getting to the point where I don't know if I should stay with him. He never wants to do anything with me and when I ask he just gets discouraged and doesnt want to go out. He sleeps all day and I ...

Why is he so selfish in bed, I do everything - but get nothing in return!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 165 days ago

12 April 2008 (F) - My boyfriend is so selfish in bed, our sex is praciticly a routine. I do everything for him, i want to be a good lover to him and i put his pleasure first. He asks me to wear sexy outfits and underwear when we have sex, which is fine with me. He ...

I realize that he loves me even when he's not showing me at the moment, but I'm not okay with dealing with his actions.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 182 days ago

12 April 2008 (F) - Okay, me and this boy have been together for almost 3 years - on and off, but do not go out...i am okay with that, but what i am not okay with is dealing with his actions. One day everything will be perfect, we will be happy and the next day he ...

I might be pregnant and I don't know what to do, please help me!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 181 days ago

12 April 2008 (F) - Okay, I am only 13 years old and I recently had unprotected sex. My period was about a week before the sexual intercourse. And i'm so stressed because i'm bleeding unregularly and i'm afraid that i might be pregnant or even worse have a STD. It...

He wants a long break until we are married, but that's for about 5 years!!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 182 days ago

12 April 2008 (F) - My boyfriend has recently asked for a long break which he wants until we're married! But that's for about 5 years, and i don't know how i'm meant to cope with it. I feel so lost and lonely and more than ever i need him by my side at the moment. I do...

Still, a year on and I'm comparing potential daters to her, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 182 days ago

12 April 2008 (M) - I am a 25 year old male that has had a few substantial relationships in my day, but my last "girlfriend" simply stays implanted in my head. As we dated I found myself falling more and more deeply in love with her, but she didn't feel the same way. ...

Do you only bleed a bit with your first intercourse?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 182 days ago

12 April 2008 (F) - I had first time intercourse last night. We'd prepared well, and relaxed, and did lots of foreplay. We didn't expect too much. At first we fumbled and giggled our way through it!! But we enjoyed ourselves. I did bleed a bit but I expected it ...

I care to win my ex back and also care about my pride... what can you advise?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 182 days ago

12 April 2008 (M) - Can you guys help me? Me and my girlfriend have been split up for 2 months, and a lot of stuff has happened since, but we are still in touch by text. She knows how i still feel about her and she has told me she still has feelings for me, this was ...

In my culture, relationship at young age is frowned upon, so how to manage my feelings?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 182 days ago

12 April 2008 (M) - well im 16 and sri lankan and in our culture, boyfroends and girlfriends at a young age is mmm frowned upon. Currently i am in love, i want to be with her and so does she, however im not sure to continue this relationship as if we get seen by ...

How often should I call my girlfriend the days I can't see her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 182 days ago

12 April 2008 (M) - After seeing my counsellor I realise now the only problem in my life is women. I have been on 3 dates in my entire life, longest relationship lasted 5 weeks. I now know it is because of low communication (i.e. when I didn't see her I would only send ...

I dearly want to rediscover the spark that we had between us in the "honeymoon period" but we're both so busy! How to spice things up a bit?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 182 days ago

12 April 2008 (M) - I've been in a relationship with a girl for almost a year and a half now. We both love each other to bits and we get on so well with each other. We have lots in common with each other and do lots together. I'm 25 and she's 24 however our sex ...

Should I tell her to calm down a bit until we get to know each other? She's overexcited about us...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 182 days ago

12 April 2008 (M) - I'm preparing to go out on a date with a girl who got divorced 2 years ago and she has a crush on me, and I like her to. She already has two kids, a house and works beside me. Before our first date she is planning for us to be together forever, ...

The guy my partner had a fling with will also be at the ball, I fear this will ruin the enjoyment for me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 181 days ago

12 April 2008 (M) - In a few weeks theres a ball that I may be going to. However, I am worried aboout going and am having second thoughts. I am meant to be going with my GF bt i have a feeling that this guy she sort of had a fling with is going to be there. I dont know...

He's not a flirty guy so how do I tell if he likes me or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 183 days ago

12 April 2008 (F) - I am wondering if this guy who is in one of my university classes likes me or not. It could be nice to hear eveyrones point of views on whether or not they think he likes me and what I can do about the situation... In class he is always volun...

How do I know if my crush likes the nickname I call him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 182 days ago

12 April 2008 (F) - It's nothing offensive on the contrary it should be flattering, but he never has said if he likes it or not when I call him like that, so Idk if continue calling him that name. I do it cuz I like him, but if he doesn't like it I can stop it and c...

What advice does anyone have to help keep our relationship strong?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 183 days ago

12 April 2008 (M) - I wrote a previous post about this,somewhat. Well recently I finally had the courage to tell my first cousin how I felt about her. I was so nervous but her reaction made everything worth it:) we are taking things one step at a time,she means the ...

How can I make a man fall for me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 183 days ago

12 April 2008 (F) - how can i make a guy fall for me...how much attention is to be given and how much disinterest is to be shown....plz help...

I'm worried we will drift apart before we get serious! Any suggestions?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 182 days ago

12 April 2008 (M) - Well here goes: I've been dating, what i consider to be an amazing woman, granted I'm 29 she's 23 but the level of maturity is the same so age was never a problem with us. We've been together for just over 3 months, and we've hit a huge snag. The ...

He had more active sex with his ex! Should I be concerned?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 181 days ago

12 April 2008 (F) - ive been with my boyfriend for almost three months now and we became sexually active after the first month. To cut a long story short, he broke up with his ex to be with me as he had had feelings for me for months and i did for him but we never told ...

My boyfriend has a low sex drive because of an accident. What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 181 days ago

12 April 2008 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for about six months and he's had an accident a few years ago and is on constant medication - loads of it and he says it affects his sex drive it always has done since we got together and I know it's not his fault but we ...

Am I somehow in the wrong? Girlfriend gets emotional when I try to talk about sex!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 168 days ago

12 April 2008 (M) - hi i am having a problem with my girlfriend. recently i told her that i wanted to talk to her about our sex life. i feel that we do not have as much sex as i would like which averages about once a month. i talked to her nicely about it and she...

We don't seem to have much in common....will it still work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 182 days ago

12 April 2008 (F) - I am in a long distance relationship with my bf. Lately, I have been feeling that maybe we are just not there yet. I have always dreamt of having a perfect relationship where he would propose to me, get marry, have childrens, etc. I always wanted ...

I have a lot of trust issues with my girlfriend. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 183 days ago

12 April 2008 (M) - Hey, my girlfriend and i have had an on and off relationship for about 18 months, she says that she loves me but i have doubts. At the start i caught her lieing to me and sleeping around. I at the start of the relationship said i wanted an open one ...

The fact that he 'can't get me off in bed' makes him feel less of a man. So how can I make him feel better?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 182 days ago

12 April 2008 (F) - I've been going out with a guy for almost half a year now, and short of little spats here and there, we're pretty compatible. I honestly think he's a real sweetheart. There's only one thing, though - he finds it upsetting that he can't get me 'of...

How can I make my boyfriend tust me??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 183 days ago

12 April 2008 (F) - Hi, i'm 18 and my boyfriend has some trust issues with me because i've lied to him in the past. I know that i wont do it anymore, but he just can't seem to believe what i say. I would do anything for him, but he doesn't trust me for anything. Wh...

How can I let him down without spoiling our friendship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 183 days ago

12 April 2008 (F) - A guy keeps in asking me to go out with him, but i really don't want to. It's not like i don't like him, but he's more of a mate, and i don't want to ruin that. How do i let him down gently? ...

Does anyone out there have ginger pubic hair?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 145 days ago

12 April 2008 (F) - Does anyone out there have ginger pubic hair? haha, My boyfriend always laughs. I'm cool with it as it's always mostly gone anyways. We have a real giggle. But no one in my family is ginger. They say they're all black. I have NATURALLY dark h...

I have a feeling he's cheating on me, what shall I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 183 days ago

12 April 2008 (F) - I'm 18 and i've been seeing my boyfriend for almost 10 months and i have a feelings that he's cheating on me? He still talks 2 a couple of his ex's because he stayed friends with them, and he had a strong relationship with them. He tells me that...