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*j75
writes:I need some advice guys. My g/f is working lots of over time at work. She makes an extra effort to look good for work. eg. spends about 2hrs getting ready. She's gone on a diet. She went bowling on works nite out last week. The place shuts at 11pm and she came home gone 2am! Am i just being paranoid when i think she's cheating?
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reader, jj75 +, writes (1 May 2008):
jj75 is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni have sat down with her and let her know how im feeling, but i just get told im trying to control her? which i dont! gawd!
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reader, :):):) +, writes (1 May 2008):
Your girl may have pressure on her to look good for work.Many employers emphazise appearence. However if she stays out she should really let you know, for her own safety aswell as your peace of mind. There are usually obvious signs people are cheating, unexplained credit statements, whispered phone calls etc. If you have mutual friends, is it possible you could ask one to have a word with her subtley? If she is working overtime, she will be getting paid more, does this reflect in her spending? Good luck
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reader, Rich549 +, writes (1 May 2008):
I think there definetely might be something going on there, but you need to sit down with her and talk to her about it.
Say that your worried about the fact that you have noticed all these changes and that if there is someone else then you need to know and she needs to decide whether its you or her.
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It could just be something as innocent as she likes to look good for work or is after a promotion. For the nights out, are you sure they arent all going out for drinks or something afterwards?
I think no matter what is going on, you need to talk this through with her.
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