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writes:this question is for all the shy guys or people who know shy guys and also for guys who study all the time but dont perform well academically..well what do these guys like in a girl..would they go for someoone as hot as a typical cheerleader..this shy guy is hot and is the most popular among girls but doesnt see anything else other than books..how can we get talkin to them..i am desperate for him..and i would like a lot of answers
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reader, Anonyman  +, writes (1 May 2008):
 It does sound like he is shy. Well i guess i could be classed as shy but i do talk to girls. The girl i currently like looks attractive to me of course, but it's about personality that shines just as much. You'll find that it takes more than looks because the quiet ones can see deeper than that. And it takes more reason for them to take a 'risk' and go for it. Look your best but always shine with your personality.
Maybe try making of plenty of eye contact when you talk to him, smile when you do that. Take an interest in what he does outside of studying and use that as a basis for converstation and getting to know each other. Be as approachable as you can to him and then he may open up.
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reader, Ask oldersister  +, writes (30 April 2008):
 I think you need to find a common ground with this guy. You say that he studies all the time but doesn't perform well academically, right? I wouldn't add to his burden by taking away from his studies but maybe you find yourself in the same boat? Maybe you need to study a lot too like in the library where he is? He'll notice you then and everyone needs some breaks in between studying, right? Some chit chat here and there..."yeah, I have to study a lot too, what classes are you taking?" Things can take off from there! You need to go in his comfort zone, not try and yank him out of it right away. Good luck- it certainly won't hurt your grades!
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reader, Emilysanswers + ♥, writes (30 April 2008):
They want a girl who doesn't assume they are a nerd for studying.
You seem to think he is of a certain type, and will like a certain type of girl as a result.
Maybe you should start thinking of him as a person with thoughts and feelings of his own. You don't seem to know anything about his personality so you need to find out what he's like.
Just go up and say hi, ask him about a homework assignment or something and then ask him if he's busy and wants to see a film or something.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, Tisha-1 + ♥, writes (30 April 2008):
 Ask him for help with your schoolwork, an assignment you have in a class you're in together. Suggest that you'd like to meet him in the library for help on this specific thing. Then he'll know you're interested in school too which would give you something in common.
Hope this helps!
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