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Dating: Help and advice

After being together for so long I'm not sure I could deal with ending it but I think I should.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 151 days ago

9 April 2008 (F) - Hi there, I could really do with some advice. I have been together with my boyfriend for 7 years, living together for most of that. Six months ago we had to move apart for work, which was fine to begin with. He used to call, email, text, etc. But ...

Don't get to see him enough and he's spending time with his ex! Should I tell him this bothers me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 151 days ago

9 April 2008 (F) - My boyfriend is very busy. we've been dating 2 months, we only get to see each other two-three times a week, if that. It's been 4 days since I've seen him and he had last night off. BUT, he's trying to rebuild a 10year friendship with an ex. they ...

What is rainbow kissing? Should I try it?

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 101 days ago

9 April 2008 (F) - I might sound really stupid asking this but what does rainbow kissing mean? My current boyfriend is pretty kinky and like trying everything out. I was a virgin when we got together so he's taught me everything i know. He asked me at the weekend ...

I'm his first "geek" girlfriend! His exes were much cuter!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 151 days ago

9 April 2008 (F) - My boyfriend has a lot of girls in his MSN contacts. He says he doesn't talk to them anymore, that he met them a long time ago in some chatrooms, out of boredom and just added them. They all have this silly cute nicknames. So I guess they're all ...

Any advice on "snogging" a boy for the first time?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 150 days ago

9 April 2008 (F) - Hey, well i like this boy and he likes me. we were meant to go out on 2 occasions to town or the cinema or something but both times he couldnt come because he was busy and couldnt get out of it. but we are supposed to be going out again in the hol...

I desperately need her to like me!! What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 150 days ago

9 April 2008 (M) - Right guys and girls i need your help. I am meeting a girl on Friday who i have for two years and i havn't seen her in a while. We're meeting up on a street corner and just going for a walk. She says that if we get on well we'll probably go out ...

He likes "golden showers" and has other fetishes. Is this a high sex drive or something else?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 130 days ago

9 April 2008 (F) - My special male friend loves to masturbate over the phone, he also love for me to pee on him in the shower, and loves to play with my small feet. He usually blows his load 3 times during a 30 min session when we are together. does he have a high sex ...

I cheated with his best friend and regret it! How can I stop cheating?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 151 days ago

9 April 2008 (F) - okay so im 12 yrs. old and my boyfriend is about to turn 14 we've been datin off and on 4 5 yrs now!! this may be a little confusing but try to work wit me... but about a month ago i cheated on him with his best friend and my boyfriends best ...

How can I compete with his video games? I'm fed up!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 151 days ago

9 April 2008 (F) - hi first off , i'm 13 and my boyfriend is 17. when i was 12 we started going out we loved each other very much. we had an argument and broke up we were together for 5 and a half months. we then got back together 2 months ago things have been...

I have a problem with him ending sex with masturbation! Does this stem from watching too much porn?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 146 days ago

9 April 2008 (F) - Lately, whenever we have sex, he cums a little and then says he is close to a "big one" and to play with him (i.e. jack him off, lick him, etc) until he's close and then he'll either cum inside of me or just cum. He seems to be in the mind set that ...

We are "friends with benefits". But...could he have feelings for me? I really don't want a relationship right now though...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 151 days ago

9 April 2008 (F) - So this one is crazy. I have know this guy since i was in middle school. Had a crush on him then. I was the "ugly duckling and unpopular" girl so it never worked. I grew up and started hanging with him back in 2000. We have been friends ever since ...

I fell in love but found out she has a daughter from another relationship! How can I look at her the same?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 130 days ago

9 April 2008 (M) - Dear friends out there, thanks for all the great advice you are giving to the world because it's helped lots of people, me included. However, I have one very disturbing situation that I have gotten myself into unintentionally. I fell in love wit...

First time to have anal sex, any ideas?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 151 days ago

9 April 2008 (F) - Hi I would like to try anal sex with my BF (together 2years now). I have been always interested in doing it, but I am little affraid. 1) how should I get myself ready (cleaning,not eating ... no idea) 2) which is the best pose the first ti...

Follow my head or my heart? He's a loner who doesn't live in the real world like I have to! We'd have a good life together though.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 99 days ago

9 April 2008 (F) - Do I follow my head or my heart? My heart tells me who is the right man for me but my head says although I'll have a wonderful life with him I'll always live my life on the bread line. Neither of us are young, over 50. We were together 3 years, ...

Love bites - why a problem?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 151 days ago

9 April 2008 (?) - is it such a big deal to have a love bite? my boyfriend and i went away for the weekdend, friday till monday and it was amazin! we spent all our time in the swimming pool and then back in the shallet we just spent all the rest of our time just enj...

How can I convince him our love is worth fighting for?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 149 days ago

9 April 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been on a break for just over a week now. The night we broke up was awful - and although it was him breaking my heart, I ended up comforting him! I know that he loves me and wants to be with me - I can't imagine that thi...

Should my friend stick with her "dirty" boyfriend or go for someone less smelly?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 151 days ago

9 April 2008 (F) - ok, this question isn't for me it's for a friend!! she has this boyfriend that she lives with. she says he is kinda dirty like he doesn't take showers everyday and brush his teeth and that sometimes he smells. She has been talking to these ot...

What can I do to impress the girl of my dreams when I take her to Prom?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 151 days ago

9 April 2008 (M) - So i am going to prom with the girl of my dreams. What can I do to impress her besides the obvious?...

Would they be better off without me? I'm having problems with my boyfriend's daughter!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 151 days ago

9 April 2008 (F) - my partner is in an awkward position. We live together and are totally in love, been together 18 months. His 9 yr old daughter came to live with us in september. briefly she is a great kid mostly. can be nice and fun and she's clever and i like her ...

My boyfriend hangs out with his brother who does drugs- he's been lying to me- what is he doing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 150 days ago

9 April 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been going out for almost 4 years. Since we were both 15. We've had some problems along the way and he got into drugs and we broke up. Then one day he called me and told me he was ready to stop and he didn't do anything for a ...

I still think of my first love but don't want to hurt my boyfriend, what can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 143 days ago

9 April 2008 (F) - I meet him about 8years ago, it was love at first sight, well for me anyway. We were friend (of a sort), we were never together, not even kissed but there was always something there. I waited and waited for him but nothing ever happened. After a ...

I'm a relationship failure. Am I risking too much again with this guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 151 days ago

9 April 2008 (?) - well im basicly a failure when it comes to relationships. im 15 now, when i was 13 i got my first boyfriend, he treat me like a princess until he decided he wanted sex. when i told him i didnt want sex he forced me into it. and yeh ive been told he ...

Does he like me as a friend or more? He gives me mixed signals!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 122 days ago

9 April 2008 (F) - Right, so this is going to sound a bit random but hey! So i have a best mate that i always text and im all the time.. we are just like bf and gf but with out the touchy feeling stuff if you get me. So the other night i invited him to meet my other...

She flirted with our friend. I trust her but I don't know what to do

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 148 days ago

9 April 2008 (M) - Dear Cupid: I'm just your average 18 year old guy i have a beautiful G/F. Well i'm goign straight to the point. You see last night my G/F and our former friend told in front of everyone (we had like 8 ppl in the chat)that she liked him...alth...

I ned your opinions about messaging a girl I really like on Facebook.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 150 days ago

9 April 2008 (M) - Okay basically there is this girl I like, she has/had a b/f and she knows I like her. We got into an argument that is non-relationship related and we stopped talking. Well I messaged her on facebook telling her there is no need for a feud and she ...

How can I get more girls to find me attractive?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 151 days ago

9 April 2008 (M) - I have no idea what it is? I am smart, almost have my college degree, good looking, outgoing, have a nice expensive car, an apartment, nice body and a good job for only being 20 years old. I dont think I am too good for anyone or bragg. I alwa...

Does he fancy me, or does he just think I'm easy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 150 days ago

9 April 2008 (F) - Right, i have been with my boyfriend about 8 months now..(let's call him Jo - to keep it secret) through him i have made alot of new friends and some very very good ones at that. A good few months ago one of these very good friends made a drun...

Too much chemistry? How can I resist the temptation?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 149 days ago

9 April 2008 (F) - Ok .. I have a problem. Earlier this year (January-March)I was dating this guy called Lee. But we broke up beacause his Ex girlfriend was trying to turn us against eachother, and thought it would be better to just remain friends because it's our...

I feel like I'm never going to find a boyfriend with all the competition out there!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 16 days ago

9 April 2008 (F) - I am 28 and havnt had a serious boyfriend for 5 years. I meet several men a year but it never seems to last for longer then two weeks as they usally end up getting bored and leaving me for someone else. I cant help but feel that there is far too ...

I've been feeling tetchy and moody after going to depo, and my bf is now ignoring me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 151 days ago

9 April 2008 (F) - Recently I changed my contraception from the pill to the depo injection, I started to get weepy and easily moody in the few weeks that followed my first one last month, at first i thought it was just stress but speaking to my doctor today it seems ...

I realise I'm hurting this boy by being capricious. How to actually decide whether I like him or not??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 151 days ago

9 April 2008 (F) - I broke up with a long term boyfriend 2 months ago and since then i've met this other guy. He's so nice, he treats me like im a princess and i believe he really cares for me. The only thing is, one day i'll really like him and want to be with him...

I found out my friend is seeing other boys apart for me, how should I explain her this?? We're not committed in fact, so why does it bother me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 150 days ago

9 April 2008 (M) - Lately I've had a thing with this girl, and we've been talking for a couple hours a day on the phone, we've had sex already, basically we're like friends with benefits. Anyways, I was away with work on the weekend, and I promised I'd call her on ...

Is this just a phase I'm going through ~ enjoying a single life again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 151 days ago

9 April 2008 (F) - Hey guys...well i have a huge problem. I've been with my boyfriend for just over 3 years now and i do love him, but i'm just not sure whether i'm in love with him anymore. Recently, i have started going to a lot of nights out with some of my ...

He's 41 I'm nearly 18, but we're two worlds apart. How can I fix this?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 148 days ago

9 April 2008 (F) - I have a 41 year old boyfriend and i'm 17(almost 18). Is this too big of a difference?? What should I do?? It's only 23 years, but he's so much smarter than i am about the world and much more experienced. How can I fix this '2 different worlds' ...

10 wks pregnant after an affair with an older man who wants nothing to do with it, pleasde help me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 126 days ago

9 April 2008 (F) - 10 wks pregnant. Been stupidly having an affair with a man for 5 yrs who is twice my age who and is in a relationship....and also has an 11 yr old son. His partner has found out in the past about us...and the majority of the country know, and tota...

Why he doesn't he text me often? He only contacts me when he wants to ask me out for a date.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 151 days ago

9 April 2008 (F) - I have been going with out with a guy for 4 times already, most of the date he was the one text me and date me out, he's nice and caring, thus, I enjoyed his companion and I believe he feels the same too, otherwise he wouldn't ask me out for the ...

Because he didn't hold my hand, kiss or hug me on our first date, does this mean he will only ever be just a friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 151 days ago

9 April 2008 (F) - I went on a first date with a lad from my college. I have only really known him since we started college and he told one of my friends he liked me and has said over the internet that he likes me...so we went to the cinema and talked loads on the way ...

She agrees that I am much better, and that if I acted the way I do now - she would not have broken up with me. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 149 days ago

9 April 2008 (M) - Ok, here it goes. I was with my ex for 1.5 years. I met her in Florida since I am down here for grad school. We live together currently. When I first dated her I found out she had a son. No big deal, he was at her dads. After about half a yea...

Videos of Wham, Rick Astley and wait for it YMCA I felt like the whole world was screaming at me 'He's gay!' Is he??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 151 days ago

9 April 2008 (F) - Is My Boyfriend Gay? I just read another reader's description of the same situation and wanted to pose the same question because I'm driving myself mad. I met a fabulous man three months ago. After three and a half years single it was a relief to ...

Do guys only want to date me as a stop over in preparation for the right one? I feel so used!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 151 days ago

9 April 2008 (F) - Hi Anne, Last year i was in a very troubled relationship but couldnt get out of it. i guess i figured no one else would want me. while i was in this relationship i met an amazing man and we fell in love. but because i was in a relationship i h...

I need more ideas for non-penetration sex. Any suggestions please?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 151 days ago

9 April 2008 (F) - Can anyone tell me sexy ideas for non-penetration sex? I am dating someone for some months, we have decided not to have sex with penetration yet, so we've been doing other kind of stuff (like oral sex and mutual masturbation), but it starts to be a ...

My ex came out as being gay, but says he loves me. Is he having second thoughts about his sexuality

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 151 days ago

9 April 2008 (F) - I dated a man for about 5 years many years ago. I was in love with him, then and always have been. After seperating I went on to have a 7 year relationship with someone else, and 3 children and also found out that my ex had come out as gay. I was ...

Developing Relationship: How do I make the next step?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 151 days ago

9 April 2008 (M) - So I told this girl that I'm interested in that I had feelings for her after spending the night cuddling together in bed for the first time. For some reason, the next morning I didn't kiss her. She made a move to, but I felt it was too ...

I'm told I'm "too nice"....so not boyfriend material! What can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 146 days ago

9 April 2008 (M) - Hi, My problem, or I believe it is a problem, is that I'm being told by potential girlfriends or girlfriends that I'm too nice!!!! Therefore, I'm "friends material." It's happened a lot over my life and well, what do I do??? I am me, and how c...

Do guys compliment girls on their name? What is a beautiful name?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 150 days ago

9 April 2008 (F) - This is something I've been thinking about for a while. Why do guys compliment girls on their names? Do you really hear a girl's name and think "wow that is a beautiful name?". Maybe I'm being a little silly, I just think it's a weird thing to compl...

Is it true love or just physical pleasure?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 152 days ago

9 April 2008 (F) - I knew this guy for more than 1 year,we are in the same university.For about six months before we started texting and then now we are in a relationship for a about 3 months. We think lot alike and we love each other alot and we feel very comfortable ...

Help me out guys! Is our emailing crazy or what?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 152 days ago

9 April 2008 (F) - So, I'm emailing a guy, who I met only in 2 times (no sexual). I like him, so I decided to contact him. Now, I email him and Idk whose crazier, me writing or him replying always to my messages with hardly knowing each other. Is it that he had such...

My boyfriend get tired during sex. Any thoughts?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 151 days ago

9 April 2008 (F) - When my boyfriend, and I do it. He gets tired, and I just want more and more. What should I do to get worn out, or to cum??...

I met a wonderful older man! He is a sex offender but I don't judge him! What do you think?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 126 days ago

9 April 2008 (F) - I recently started seeing a man somewhat older than me. So far, I find him wonderful! We enjoy each others company, we share the same values and ideals, we are both happily independent. He is an absolute gentleman, very well read, and very ...

I need to feel safe in a relationship so I need help on this!! PLEASE...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 152 days ago

9 April 2008 (F) - how to even ask, okay here goes well im engaged underage and in love with my boyfriend on the side which is more than my long distant fiance. im 17 years old my fiance is 21 which knows im 17 then my boyfriend is 35 and thinks im 20 i...

I'm scared that she is testing me love....is she waiting for me to contact her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 151 days ago

9 April 2008 (M) - Hi, I'm in love with someone and she is in love with me. We are kinda together but not really, we don't have a physically relationship, its just emotional. We see each every day for at least a few hours and both of us find that not enough. Any...

There's a sexual connection between us, but I feel not enough of an emotional one.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 152 days ago

9 April 2008 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for about a year and a half. We've been through a lot but we seem to have worked things out. The sex is amazing...we have a great time but I feel like he can't give me enough emotionally. He tells me he loves me, ...

He wants to meet with his ex, just for coffee, I do trust him, but deep down it does bother me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 145 days ago

9 April 2008 (F) - I have been seeing my boyfriend of 2 months, a lot lately. Over these 2 months we have learned a lot from each other. I have slowly grown to really like him and i enjoy every minute of his company. He is what i consider my first serious boyfriend. ...

How can I make her mine again??? I really want her back.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 151 days ago

9 April 2008 (M) - I'm in a lose-lose situation and desperately need help A couple of months ago my ex-girlfriend broke up with me for another guy. We had been having some troubles, and now that i look back i realize what these problems were...I never truly show...

He's not interested in sex. Help!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 145 days ago

9 April 2008 (F) - Problem. I have a boyfriend of 5 months. He does not live here. Thats not the problem. The problem is, he doesnt seem very into sex. Ok im not a nymph or anything like that, but I do enjoy talking about it occassionally. On one hand, I like that he ...

He's a jerk and an asshole..why can't I break up with him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 105 days ago

9 April 2008 (F) - Soo. My boyfriend of the same age is an asshole pretty much. He flirts with girls, rubs on them..in front of me and then comes running back to me and rubbing on me...He sneaks around the corners of school trying to get something accomplished with ...

Does a guy only want you for sex if he asks for it on a first date?

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 145 days ago

9 April 2008 (F) - If a guy and a girl go out on a first date and he then asks her to be his gf and she says yes, then he asks to have sex with her (on the first date!), do you think its fair to say he probably is only really looking for sex and if he doesn't get it ...

I want to talk to him about it, because he was being a little forceful and I didn't like it. Is it just his natural rush? How should I go about talking to him about it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 152 days ago

9 April 2008 (F) - Hello Aunts. I know that with what I'm asking advice on, everyone's going to want to tell me that I'm too young to be doing all this and whatever else they want to say about my age, but I'm going to ask you to please not comment on my age if it's ...

First article : Are men and women you different ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 149 days ago

9 April 2008 (F) - Hey! This is my first article, to be honest its more to document my thoughts than anything else... But hey hope you like it!! So I got thinking... About many different things men, love, life, sex, jobs. But all them have roots with war of women ...

My new boyfriend is still friends with ex who wants him back AND part of "friend group". How can I get in and should I be worried?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 122 days ago

9 April 2008 (F) - I recently started dating a new guy. He broke off a 1 1/2 year relationship with his ex 6 months ago. They had been friends over 10 years before and she constantly tried to go out with him. She finally succeeded at a party when he was drinking ...

My girlfriend sucks at giving head.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 146 days ago

9 April 2008 (M) - My girlfriend sucks at giving me head. How do I make her better....

More boy problems... I don't want to blow it... HELP!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 149 days ago

9 April 2008 (F) - Hi...its little old me again with yet again more boy problems. It's not like im one of those girls that has thousands pf boys begging for her attention...all my boy problems involve the same guys!!! anyways, here is my problem. I have three fabul...