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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:I'm 19 and the guy that i'm taking to is "J" and he's 18. Well, me and J met in the city bus and the whole ride, he and I were staring at each other. To me it seemed to be for hours. At soon as we both got off at the bus station, i looked at him and he was already looking at me.We ended up talking and to the point where we started to see each every other day. Everytime we see each other, we just go crazy for each other.The problem is that we just stop hanging, because he always has basketball practice and i don't want to get mad for liking what he does, so we just talk on the phone. He tells me he wants to see me and he misses me and stuff. At this point, I really like J. 2 weeks later, his cell phone was disconnected, so the only way we see /talk is through facebook. As weeks passed by, our communication is starting to fade away and i'm thinking maybe he's not interested in me any more, but when i ask him if he's still into me, he tells me does, its just that he's really busy with basketball and family. So know its been more than 2 weeks that I havent spoken to him and I don't know what to do. Do i write to him or wait ? What you think he's on his mind, should I stay with him ? I really like and I want to know for sure what should i do, I like him. Thanks
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reader, xanthic  +, writes (2 February 2011):
 Give him space, let him contact you first. If you don't hear from him he's probably lost interest. These things happen, there's a chance it has nothing to do with you or anything you did and you both just happened to grow apart.
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reader, auntieloulou  +, writes (2 February 2011):
 I think you need to give him space and see if he comes to you. it seems your being too available to him and he's taking that for granted. don't call or text him and see how long it takes for him to get in contact with you. that should be a good indication of how he feels about you. if it gets to 2 weeks and you have no word from him, i would take that as a sign that he is not interested and i would end it. he may be busy with other things but theres always time for a relationship if you really want there to be.
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