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writes:Hello. Im 17 nearly 18 years of age and i have been with my boyfriend, Gunner for nearing 8 months now, i know that it isnt that long compared to others on here but i still love him. Recently i had quite bad PMS and it made me feel like i didnt love him. And its just stuck. It hasnt gone. The feeling hasnt gone and i dont know why i know that i love him, the minute i see him my heart goes and i feel so lucky, so i cant understand why im feeling this way. Its happended once before when i was on the pill and the only way that i could stop the feeling was by breaking up with him. I knew what i huge mistke i had made and i had to go back. Bottom line is I can't live without him but my emotions are telling me otherwise. I feel sick with guilt and worry that this will not go away. I need him. he's genuinly a nice guy and i love him. Help!
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reader, tennisstar88  +, writes (11 February 2011):
 Couldn't your mother sign or give an approval for you to get them? Here in the U.S. teens can obtain anti-depressants of course through their parents insurance. Not sure how your NHS works in the UK..I'm sure it can be worked out somehow?
Well still give the other tips a shot! If anything you can work off your out of control PMS on the treadmill for a run.
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reader, jul1993 +, writes (9 February 2011):
jul1993 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the light tennisstar, it shone the light abit. But my only issue with that would be 'I thought pms/pmdd went after you've come on?' and this just hasnt, and I just dont know what to do. It's primarily targetting my boyfriend, making me feel as if I don't love him it's awful I know I do. But even so I feel guilty telling him I love him! Maybe I could get anit-depressants although I can't see it because I'm under 18 and they are very weird like that around here. But thanks anyway. x
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (3 February 2011):
It's quite possible you may have PMDD. Which is basically a severe, out of control case of PMS.
It can be treated by a balanced diet with increased whole grains and fruits, enough rest, taking vitamins such as B6, calcium, magnesium, and exercise 3-5 times a week.
Truthfully, I would consult your doctor. Tell him/her how about your severe PMS and see if he/she can give you more tips. He/she may also you prescribe anti-depressants to help treat PMDD.
There's no need to dump your boyfriend every time you feel like a monster. Get some help, go make an appointment with your GP!
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