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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:k this guy ive been dating him for about 3 and a half months now and we have NEVER been in a fight. everything is just perfect. but theres been so much drama!! first this chick, his ex gf, this fat ugly whore that wouldnt leave me alone! she challenged me to fights but she always ended up backing out and she started threatening my friends. and my bf did all he could to get her off my back and she almost broke us up. and as soon as she gets out of the picture and i just start getting happy again i hear a rumor that he cheated on me. the rumor wasnt that he was with a little 7th grader (hes 16 and in 11th grade)and the girl messaged me confessing to it and im still not sure if he did it or not. i think he might have. i asked him about it but of course he denied it. we almost broke up then and there too. all these stupid little girls keep getting in the way of everything and they really need to step off. but like even tho all this was going around, while im with him its just like a dream. i cant focus and i get real clumbsy and we get along so well he makes me laugh and hes just perfect. my knees still get weak and start to shake whenever im with him and i absolutly adore him and his warm smile.... and he treats me with respect. hes like perfect and ive never felt so strongly for another guy. ive tried not to love him. ive tried so hard but i think i do. what should i do in this situation?? how do i know if im really in love with him?? and if i am in love with him... how do i prove it to him?? (cuz he tells me he loves me and i never say it back except in txts cuz whenever i try to say it in person i think of that damn 7th grader and i just wanna burst out in tears. its really bad...) ive wanted help for the longest time but i dont have anyone that i can trust and i dont know anyone who i can open up to so if you could please help me that would be amazing :) shmanks!
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