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30-35,
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writes:I'm non religious but open minded. I loved a girl my age... not sure if I still love her... I am a gentlemean, polite, sincere, caring and loyal. I never insulted...or anything. I would always look out for her and respect her like no other. I bought a lot of gifts for her...I poured my heart out. We shared everything. we went out for a few weeks then one day...out of the blue. She says she was drunk on a night and cheated on me.Could it be my fault? I never even tried to get in bed with her. I wanted a ready step. Even before I do such a thing. I'm already betrayed.She said things very defensive yet aggressively and with detail. Like "give me a break he stopped halfway anyway". The guy she cheated on taunted me about it.. I didn't stoop low.. I was destroyed emotionally and had nightmares of it. I felt so helpless. I decided I ought to forgive her. but I could not forget. Soon after I see her flirting with others...in the arms of others. It didn't make me feel any better. One day she simply went into the arms of another man while I was right in front of her.We argued and she said all kinds of nasty things that still haunt me. She left me for another guy....who soon after dumped her...and she came back to me..needless to say it didn't look good for her. Being caring I took her in once again in a loving embrace.Was it the right thing to do? or am I just being naive?Many months pass and we want to get married... she knows I want to propose but I wanted the proposal to be perfect as well as the wedding so I started taking her random romantic places building up to the most beautiful place of all (to us) where I would propose.ut she got angry and impatient and she argued fiercely and she left me again.Was I aiming to high? Wishing her to be my forever girl?I felt I should be a different kind of ex than the ones I heard about and so I kept in touch with her only to find she had been sleeping with many other men since she left me. I contacted her about it and for the first time in my life I recieved a death threat.Is that normal? Should I have just left her alone?Since then I have been afraid of reading texts in case it is something hurtful from her.So many more months pass... and she speaks to me again...things seem alright then I realise I'm falling in love with her again.What do I do? Should I run away from her again? it makes me feel heartless.It was a very deep love, Poetry, Art, Tingling sensations It felt something very real..
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reader, SALAHADDIN  +, writes (3 February 2011):
 just be a man.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 February 2011): She's in dire need of psychiatric treatment. Her mental illness isn't being attended to, and she's so far gone you are never going to have any type of normal relationship with her. It will be nothing but compounding chaos. She has multiple mental illnesses starting with multiple personality, bipolar, schizophrenia, add, so on.
Hopefully she doesn't have children.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 February 2011): Whoah run the hell away from her. She's She's mentally ill and presents a danger to your life. My exfiance was exactly like her and she's in prison now for attempted homicide against me! Get the hell away from her while you're safe. Hide everything about yourself so she can't find you! You have to get rid of her.
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