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writes:I have been with my partner now for 16 years we have a son and both have baggage from our past for the last couple of years our sex life has become rare! But a lot of this was down to me medically but the last few months nothing at all, he recently cuddles a spare pillow when I lay next to him and never attempts anything at all he's stepped up on the gym, I do trust him but don't understand what's going on apart from I'm older maybe.
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reader, Leodjoneluv  +, writes (3 February 2011):
 you too have lost communication. Spice it up. set up a candle light mood with some slow music. Wear something nice for him one day. Give a nice back massage. Talk to him. Become his friend again.
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reader, KingOfThron  +, writes (3 February 2011):
 Hey, Most men are more "up-beat" in there younger age. but as time gose on men seem to lose the intrest in large amount of sex. we dont really understand why this is but men are more aggresive at a young age and as time gose by they turn more in to a "calmed-down" kind of guy
The gym thing is just a man thing also. He might start to be feeling his age and trying to get some of the engery back by staying fit. Here's a tip for you though: go to the gym with him start to be more active and when you guys get home try to set the mood by offering another type of work out or some from of flirting. they say sex is better after a good woke out anyways so it just might turn in to something you both enjoy!
Hope this helps Good luck! if you have any questions feel free to ask!
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