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female
age
51-59,
*ullsfriend
writes:I have a wonderful friend who is quite intuitive when it comes to people. I asked her if she knew of any available men within my dating area that she thought I would like (she is married). She connected me with an old friend of her's that she reconnected with on FB. Said know my personality (type A) and his (laid back Taurus) she felt we would be a good fit. He jumped right on the connection, FBing me within the hour she purposed the connection. Talked on FB on and off all day (on and off) finding out more about one another. Basically, in so many words, I said FBing and texting were hard because you could not get the inflection of peoples words. He commented that he was used to it and that he did it with his kids all the time. I proceed to give him my number and asked him to give me a call. He said "now". Nothing since! I see he is on FB throughout the day with no messaging to me. Should I just hold out and wait to see if he contacts me or should I FB him first. This is the part I hate! This cat and mouse stuff. What is your advice
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 February 2011): I would wait for him to contact you. You gave him your number and it is probably obvious that you would like to be in contact. So leave it up to him now. It is safe to stay if he wants to contact you he will. Hard to wait I know but contacting him would seem a bit too keen.
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