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*ickm
writes:Help needed please, I'm going insane here - been seeing this guy for 6 months he lives an hour away from me and works afternoon shifts so I only see him once a week - sometimes twice, he texts nearly every day, says he is very comfy and happy with me...but I have doubts.. He re-joined the dating site we found each other on and when I asked him about it he said he rejoined as there were a few friends on there that he chatted to and he missed talking to them - even gave me their names - but I'm not happy about it. It makes me feel uneasy - yes I know he has friends and that's fine, but he has never added me to Facebook either, and he has a lot of female friends on there. He is also on tagged and chats on there. It all makes me feel uneasy, is he taking me for a fool or am I reading too much into this?
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reader, firstlovelastlove  +, writes (16 February 2011):
 "been seeing this guy for 6 months" have you agreed to be in a committed relationship?
If so, I would say he loves you and wants you to be happy. If you tell him kindly but clearly you are not happy about these things he should do whatever it takes to ensure your happiness.
"[h]e spends a long time on there". To me this means he's not seeing anyone because he's on his computer and a person can't be in two places at once.
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reader, vickm +, writes (16 February 2011):
vickm is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for the reply have found out he is no longer on the dating site and he has added his friends to msn and told me their names which i do feel much better about still feel uneasy about him being on tagged though - we are both on there and have each other as friends but he spends a long time on there - he doesnt really have time to see anyone else as he works late afternoon shifts and he also lives with his mum and dad after his marriage broke up 18 months ago so i dont think he is cheating but maybe could be about to ?
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reader, Blonde68 +, writes (16 February 2011):
If I was a betting lass I would say that you are being taken for a ride.
You are probably one of many of his many female friends, however, the others obviously don't want anything serious where as you perhaps do. If these so called "friends" of his are friends, then why hasn't he got them on msn etc, why has he got to rejoin a dating site. Alarm bells ring for me!
I personally wouldn't waste anymore of your time on him hun unless you just want some fun and become on of many of his "friends"!
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