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*rhit1007
writes:I like this girl and I know she's a flirt to begin with. The only times we do hang out just us is when we're studying at the library or something. She and I text pretty often... both of us initiate conversation. We have a lot of the same friends and so we're often at the same parties on the weekends. The past couple weekends, a group of us would go out and get some healthy drunk food and head back to her place. There she and I would cuddle and usually my arm would end up over her shoulder. Last weekend, my roommates and I had a big party. After the party died down, a group of us went to get food. On our way there she and I held hands. Keep in mind this is happening when we're a little drunk. I feel like if nobody was there, we probably would have hooked up. I'm making dinner (I love cooking!) for her and her roommate this Friday and I'd really like to ask her out on a date too.The question is, does she like me or is she just being a flirt?
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 February 2011): There's two ways you can go about approaching this situation.
One is to man up and tell her how you feel. I know this sounds bold, daring, scary - whatever. If you want her, you should grab her the first chance you get. I don't know about you, but where I'm from, parties move fast. There will be other guys who will be interested her as well, and they may initiate a relationship with her before you can stop it. When that happens, it might be too late. So you should definitely keep in mind that time is of the essence, and ask her out on a date.
The second option is reserved for your non-confident side. If you're worried about rejection and that eventual awkwardness that arises after aforementioned rejection, then maybe you should lay low for a while. If this girl doesn't strike you as someone who's ready for a commitment or any other type of relationship, then you can't rush it. You need to move cautiously and slow, while secretly fending off the other males who might be interested in her. This is a much more time-consuming and painstaking act, but it can be done.
Personally, I'd suggest you go for the first option. Quick, easy, and it's much more manly as well. You can even twist it up a bit by planning a surprise date/dinner/event as your official asking-her-to-be-your-girlfriend thing. That is, only if you know for sure that she is interested in you.
Best of luck.
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reader, mizz.butterflies +, writes (16 February 2011):
 u will know when u hear her response .
go ahead and ask her out (after dinner)
Signs are she likes you.
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reader, 3yearapartlove +, writes (16 February 2011):
only time can tell i'm sorry to say... every person is different... let's hope she likes you though :).. hope this helps
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