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writes:Okay, so 2 nights ago i went to a house party and there was this guy there that i have met a couple times and he is a friend of my friend. He really likes me and everyone is trying to get us together. I do quite like him but he's not really my type so have never really thought about it, plus i like my friend, the one who is friends with him, and i think he likes me but he hides it well but i do get messages off him suggesting that he does like me. Anyway, that night this guy that really likes me basically wouldn't leave me alone (obviously trying to get with me) and everyone was pushing it, so in the end i did kiss him, but i didn't feel anything and i don't think i really like him. The thing is, i'm a virgin and have never done anything but kiss boys so i kind of freaked out thinking he would want to do more so i avoided him alot the rest of the night. But, i'm going to be seeing him regularly now and now he thinks i want to continue things on with him because i kissed him but i don't know if i do. But then i'm thinking maybe i just should so i get experience and get more confident for the future, because i suppose i could like him if i got to know him better. Also, he's a really nice guy, he would never use a girl or anything, he's very sweet! I'm really confused on what to do! Any help would be so appreciated! Reply to this Question
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reader, hdh2170  +, writes (9 April 2011):
A Kiss is not a contract. ( flight of the Concords) But really, its probably best that you pursue what you want. If you want your friend ( the mutual friend of the boy you kissed), then make moves on him and don't confuse the other one with mixed signals. Mixed signals are the worst. It isn't your fault that things got confusing in the heat of the moment with this other guy, that's normal. But now you know you don't like him so shuffle on. You sound like a genuinely nice person in assessing that the one you kissed is a nice boy, but its better for him if you don't drag it out. good luck!
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