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writes: i have feelings for this older guy.he is 27 i am 18 in the uk i don't know weather to make my feeling known we are close and talk all th4e time. i am very flirty towards him but i don't know if he notices?he is recently divorced because his wife cheated on him (affair) so they were divorced about 8 months ago .so should i make my feeling known ?should i just go for it ? should i make a pass?please help me out thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 April 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionokay it isn't based on sex i am sorry i didn't make that clear as i said he is divorced and has been for a while i am not his rebound girl .i am going to make my move,i will ring him tomorrow and ask him to meet me .i have no idea what to say but thanks to everyone who has helped.i will keep you updated
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 April 2011): honestly, i believe the only thing a 27 year old guy woud want with an 18 year old girl, is to get in a younger girls pants. although your of age, he still should be ashamed of himself if he does it..but on the other hand, if you two have/are building up something and he isnt pressing sex issues and the sex is mainly just your idea right now, then it might not be all about sex, you two might actually be building something here..more details would help...
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reader, person12345  +, writes (9 April 2011):
 No, the age difference is a lot. If he was interested in an 18 year old, you'd be his rebound, someone he felt he could take advantage of easily. Plus getting divorced that young is usually a bad sign.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 April 2011): No,dating a older guy leads to a heartbreak.All they want right now is sex and trust me he'll take advantage of you.So i say No.Don't do it.
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reader, meldana +, writes (9 April 2011):
Hey hon, I did the same thing once and the one thing you can't do is just dive into a relationship. I did that before and I paid with my heart.
If I were you I would see what common ground you guys have. What is his favorite movie, what does he like in a girl, is he even looking for a woman at this time?
Some older guys like to just be free for a bit and use some young ladies for "pleasure" rather then get into a real relationship again.
So, lol, what I am trying to say is know before you date. You might not even be his type.... then again you might be what he's searching for. Remember,knowing is half the battle.
(G.I. JOOOEEEEE)
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