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female
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anonymous
writes:I'm just really confused right now. Here's the thing, my ex-bf of 7 months broke up with me through email 2 years ago since we have had a long-distance relationship, he told me he faded his feelings for me but wanted to stay friends even after the break-up. I never tolerated this, and I won't answer his texts and emails for months. Plus he has a new girlfriend.Until one day I decided to just don't mind over anything and maybe act as if I already have forgotten what has happened. He even told me that I'm still special to him and all that. Anyway, just 6 months ago, we've seen each other (just the two of us) and ended up having sex. I didn't liked what happened since I still have feelings for him and trying to hide it. But maybe because he's the only guy I dated seriously. Well, i don't know. Since I noticed that my feelings were brought up again, I'm trying to avoid him. Again, not replying from his texts and emails. About a month ago, we were texting again and he wanted to see me. I got hesitated since I don't want to be his 'booty call' when I have feelings this much for him. When I asked why he said that he just missed me until I said yes (sigh!). He got really excited with it but I'm trying to communicate with him in a manner that he would notice that I sensed what he wants. The next day he cancelled the date and told me we'll see each other next time. It was not that big of a deal really so I said Okay. Then when he texted me I didn't replied, I really don't think it's a good idea. The next day, he texted again. But he never got any reply. We actually were neighbors so once in a while I may see him, he might see me. A while ago, I decided to text him and he ended up asking "who is this pls?" He told me that he hadn't saved my number and asked me who gave me his number while all this time he's the one who has always been trying to stay connected to me! When he apologized I told him 'twas no big deal and ended the conversation. Then he told me that he's sorry that he forgot that he's the one who texted me first. Is he acting like he doesn't care? Or his into playing with me? or did he just got an amnesia? I mean, this time it sounds like I wasn't texting to him really. I just think it's weird.
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reader, fishdish  +, writes (9 April 2011):
 in this day and age, remembering numbers not in address books are hard for us, so I wouldn't hold it against him. there is the possibility, if he still has that gf you mentioned, that it was actually her asking who it was. either way, it seems pretty obvious that even booty calls are not really on the table and you really need to move on and find someone else who IS interested.
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