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writes:I was dating this guy for a couple months. He told me that he doesnt believe in labels and that we are not boyfriend/girlfriend but we'll just go with the flow. Even though I told him I dont do anything without a commitment, he asked for oral sex. This got me extremely angry because I was fine with "going with the flow" unless he asked me for sex, which I told him I was not ready for.I really opened up to him so much and told him that I have been really hurt in the past, its hard for me to trust people and he said he would never want to hurt me. But he always does, he prefers going out and partying with his friends than spending time with me. I called him and wanted to tell him that we were done but he said he was busy and would call me back. He never called so I sent him a text saying this was not the way I wanted to tell him, but since he wouldnt talk to me, it was the only choice. I told him that whatever we had was over and that Im not just a toy he can play with and I thought he was better than that. He didnt reply and now I feel really sad. I mean I know I did the right thing but why do I feel horrible?
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 May 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwow baby duck! thanks so much! that makes me feel so much better knowing what you wrote :)
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reader, malum424 +, writes (4 May 2009):
 You feel bad because you care about him, but to me it seems like you did the right thing. You saw what kinda of relationship was a head of you if you stayed with him.
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