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writes:i everybody my name is zach and i am haveing problems with my feiance jessie i love her to death but i just dont know wat is goin through her head lately cause when i try to talk to her she gets pissy and she always pushs eachother away i dont know if it is her thinkin about her ex that she was with for 3 years or not but i told her that i want to marry her and she said yes and we are suppose to next year but i dont know if she even wants to cause the way she has been to me i have been very hurt cause of her being pushy and screamin at me i have tried talkin to her but she dosnt ever want to and i think the reason she is bein this way is cause of her ex every time she hears him being with another girl she gets pissed about it and likes to hide stuff and i told her to let hjim go and ignore him but she wont she still talks to him on messanger every now and then and i dont like it but all she wants to do is be friends with him and i was raised by not being friends with ur ex cause if u can get along as friends u can together but anyways me and my feiance livve together and everything and its just rough to talk to her and stuff when she says not now later and then i ask lata and it is still no so i really dont know wat to do i love her to death she the best thing that has ever happend to mei have never loved a girl like i do her shes everything to me so if anyone can help me please let me know cause i want her to talk to me but she wont she always says shes fine and has no thought going thriugh her head when every one has a thought going through there head every min a day so please let me know ur opinions of wat to do thanks zach.......
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 May 2009): HI THEBEAST.AKA.MR.BOMB
maybe u should talk to ur feance about that really she needs to let things out like that and maybe u should like get her to talk about it through messanger or a journal or somethin like that cause other wise u guys are gonna have a hard time and i now wat its like when i get alot of stuff built up in me and i go off for brein a female and alot of my other female friends are like that and also i have a question for u would fallenangel08 be your feance because shes on here as well and askin advise about her feance i was just curious well i hope i was alot of help and ledt us know the out come............
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 May 2009): I understand where you are coming from but she most likely does love you but being out of a 3 year relationship can be hard if she was really close to that person. But how much time do you spend with her? Like how much do you see her. That could add to the fighting. I say just you both should try and maybe not do so much of the things you do daily that make you fight. As for you saying she says nothing is going through her head, something is always going through your head, but it is possible that your mind could be blank at times or the only thing going through your head is what to think about. That can be cause by alot of things like depression and or sadness. Don't listen to what people say about your typing, just try and work on add little things to it tho so it doesn't seem like one giant sentence. hope this helps you.
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