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writes:What exactly makes a guy want to commit to a girl?i have this guy friend (he fancies me..I fancy him too) but we have been on and off without a year and hes played all these mind games and generally the whole situations soo messed uppeople say I could be a model, Im smart, funny, gentle, generous, everything this guy should and could have.. so why doesnt HE realise what he is throwing away by going on like an asshole?guys perspective would be nice. im just turned 21 and feel like ive wasted a year of my life on this guy! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 May 2009): The best thing to do would be to talk to him about it, and clarify how you both feel.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 May 2009): Honestly, a guy won't commit to a girl unless and until he is at a place in HIS life where he feels that he wants to get married, until then he always keeps his options open even if he thinks he loves you....the number one thing that makes it happen is when he is actually ready to commit to any one....and they don't even admit this to themselves, honey.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 May 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni have plenty of "self respect"
i havent had sex with him and i wouldnt until he is completely devoted to me only
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reader, StudentOfLife  +, writes (25 May 2009):
 First thing that comes to my mind is love. If I'm in love, I will commit to the relationship. If I'm not, I tend to look around to find it.
It's not about how you look but if there's a connection or not. When I look at a girl, some of them I wish I could be in a relationship with, some it's for the look/fun/sex.
What's does a girl do that would make me want to have a relationship with her VS just sex? It's the way that she makes me feel.
If she's able to make me feel like a million buck, I'll grab the moon for her if I have too.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 May 2009): It's only about looks at first and then it becomes about the girl's confidence and self respect. You've put up with his crap which makes him respect you less so he doesn't consider what he's throwing away to have much value, sorry.
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