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writes:I think I have an issue. I am in love with a guy that already has a grilfriend. We were dating for a while but he dumped me. We still like each other- it's obvious. We have kinda become friends with benefits we dont have sex we just make out. Last night was his Bar Mitzvah and as soon as gf left he put his arm around my shoulder and took me to a little place where we could be alone. Then he looked at me and we made out- intensely. He doesn't think he was cheating on his girlfriend. I'm not sure. Since then he said he could kiss better than he did last night and that he would prove it to me. After he said that he said he didn't want to hurt his gf, we could be friends but we couldn't tell anyone. Does he still wanna kiss me?
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 May 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni love him. and i do think there is still a chance of us going out because of the way he is. he doesnt think it is cheating, i do. its soo hard to say goodbye to the one u love though. any suggestions on how to get over him.
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reader, iSmil3y +, writes (25 May 2009):
What both of you are doing, is wrong. Yes, that IS cheating! Think about how you would feel if you found out that your boyfriend was cheating on you. You'd be upset right? That's how she's gonna feel and I think you should step up and tell him that it's wrong and you're not doing it anymore. You should just leave him alone and find another guy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 May 2009): He does want to kiss you, but he is cheating on his girlfriend! He just wants you as the bit on the side as he knew that you'd be willing.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 May 2009): Yeah, he wants to kiss you but I doubt he likes you the way you think he does. He dumped you, remember? You went from being his girlfriend to basically being just a piece on the side. You know it's cheating and he's being a jerk. Don't let him treat you like a tramp. If he really liked you, he'd be your boyfriend. This will give you a bad reputation too! Now that you've let him use you like this, you can forget all chances of him wanting to be more than just a friends with benefits thing, he won't look at you the same. If you want guys to take you seriously, you have to have respect for yourself or you'll always be treated second best.
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reader, Denizen  +, writes (25 May 2009):
 I think you need to open your eyes to this situation. How would you like it if you were the other girl? Do unto others as you would be done by. It flatters male ego to think they can have more than one woman on a string. Is this what you want to be?
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reader, QuirkLady +, writes (25 May 2009):
 He is cheating on his girlfriend and you're going right along with it. Leave him alone and find someone who won't put you second best.
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