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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:My dilemma is with my bf of 5mths. At first, he was the running after me, so i got to know him and liked him mutually back. He's an awesome guy, and things are usually great between us. We both have history of being in relationships in which both of us have been cheated on therefore we have this common bond that neither of us would act like this in this relationship. Lately, he has been distant. Like he msgd me and accused me of doing something silly which is nonsense and I replied back being honest and said for him to believe me. For 2 days he didnt even bother txting or calling, neither have I cause I was the one working. Though, strangely I get a call from him with just a weird voicemail msg of his phone running background. Because of no signs of him asking me how im doing, i msgd him couple of times being a bit shrewd but to the point telling him that i feel that im a casual gf and if he cared much about it he would reply back or at least say sorry. Being straight to the point, we talk on the phone after this, but he just sounded distant and like him trying to prove his point in being right and not consideriing me. So he said he had to go while i wanted to talk to him about it. I asked him to call me later but he hasnt, so I txtd him back and tried calling but now he is ignoring. My point is: I like him a lot, though Im questioning if he is liking me the same way back or not?! It is starting to bother me a bit that he doesnt return my call or txt me back. I feel that Im just a convenience when he needs me etc. What do I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 May 2009): Most guys that claim they have been cheated on and tell you they would never do this and make it a point to tell you that are usually cheaters. It's like someone saying "I'm a good person". Someone that is a good person doesn't need to proclaim it because they just act like a good person. Then he accuses you of crap he's probably doing himself. He sounds manipulative and he's playing games which you shouldn't tolerate. How do you stop the treatment? You walk away.
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