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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:I've been with my bf for a year and a half. for a while we were having trouble with our relationship because we are both full time students in college and we live an hour away from each other. I have this co-worker that I had a crush on. He lead me to believe that he liked me because he would kiss me when ever he had the chance. I told him every time that he did this to stop because I have a bf. one night I had gotten into an argument with my bf about how i felt that i didnt have a bf. I went out to where I work and had a few drinks. My co-worker knew that I had a lot to drink and asked to come over after work. He kissed me again and I told him that I cant do this he persisted until we had sex. I later heard from someone that he likes to have sex with multiple women and likes to use it as a game to break up relationships. My boyfriend and I worked things out but I dont know if I should confront my co-worker about his game or how to deal with him at work. I feel deceived because he made him self seem nice and not a player when thats not the case.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 May 2009):
Players don't get laid by going around telling the girls that they're players. They're con artists.
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reader, Lilly Rose  +, writes (13 May 2009):
 Well the fact is you have done the dirty with him....time to move on from him and focus on your boyfriend. I think most people have been in that situation were we sleep with someone thinking it will come of something then bang it was just bit of fun for them. Hes a player and you got caught in his players charm also you was at a low and vunrable so makes you easy prey! You made a mistake, you trusted this fella and he broke your trust, stay clear of him, dont let him think he has got to you as he would probably enjoy it. Walk with you head high, your young we all slip up, just learn from this mistake and remember never to sleep with a man unless you know the score afterwards...fun or serious!
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