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writes:I need some advice, I have liked this guy I work with for a couple of years, he shows an interest and is always checking me out, we have never been on a date (I have asked once and something came up and he couldn't make it), we french kissed about three months ago and it was amazing and I can't get him out of my head, I think about him all the time but nothing has happended since, well we stll talk and he suggested that we hook up next week because he is on lates, but I don't want this to be a work thing and I have said this, is there a way I can change this situation, like I say I like him a lot and I know that if things go wrong he probably wont speak at work and I love our chats.
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reader, dozymare25 +, writes (13 May 2009):
Why don't you suggested you go out for few drinks as work colleagues. Then you can see whether its just you that has the feelings or not. Would u be willing to risk losing a good friendship for a relationship that might not last? Good luck hun xx
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reader, kellyxxx +, writes (13 May 2009):
 Does he have a girlfriend? X
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reader, Mr.Insignificant  +, writes (13 May 2009):
 Relationships at work are a very difficult topic. I would strongly advise against it because it will most likely only hurt your professional image and future growth.
Dating a coworker will more than likely become the topic of discussion in the office and expose you to more speculation than necessary.
Think about it this way: If he were to get you pregnant but you are not married or even a couple, would that be fodder for discussion? Could your career survive it?
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