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My girlfriend is obsessed with my penis!

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Question - (5 March 2009) 4 Answers - (Newest, 7 March 2009)
A male United States age 22-25, anonymous writes:

I know this may sound silly but it's true. My girlfriend is obsessed with my penis. I don't know why, maybe it's because she's never seen one in real life before me... or something, I don't know. She's so fascinated by it, she's always wants to lay her hands near it or on it where ever we go. She gave me my first hand job yesterday... I'm the one that's supposed to be the happiest after that, (which I am happy), but she had a huge kool-aid smile on her face afterwards while we were cuddling. Is she falling in love with me or am I just taking this too seriously??

I mean I really do like her, we get along so great, she has everything I would ever want in a girl she's perfect. Am I just being idiotic about this??

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A reader, anonymous, writes (7 March 2009):

This is verified as being by the original poster of the question

thanks everybody..

and to the second response

i had no ententions of trying

to boast about it

i was just curious

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A female reader, SugarCookie United States +, writes (6 March 2009):

I think that she is falling in love with you but a lot of girls like an erect penis or to feel if it is erect because it makes us feel sexy and wanted. We love that. I also bet that she is so excited that she can please you that too makes us feel sexy!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (6 March 2009):

A 13-15 year old female's interest in her first penis exposure is typically very zealous. In fact, both of you ought to be amazed at the other's genitalia for first timers if you agree to free exploration.

You sound like you're boasting; you're girl's into your genitals, you've got the big smile after your first hand job, she's a perfect girl, etc.

I'm wondering if you posted to merely share your afterglow...

In answer to your question if she's falling in love with you, statistically, no, she can't be. To address your ego, sure, she's falling for you as much as an adolescent is capable.

Remember to accept the consequences of all your choices.

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A male reader, ISOHaven United States +, writes (6 March 2009):

Whoa! Slow down there guy :)

You are dating a heterosexual woman. She likes penis. That is perfectly normal.

Sounds like she has a pretty high sex drive inside her. So, consider the flip side... low sex drive. She could not care about your penis at all. Which would you rather have?

As for "where ever we go". Is this bothering you in public? If so then let her know you are comfortable with that kind of "play" in public. This one is hard for man and woman because we naturally want to play with our partner in public and you can pretty much do anything to woman out of sight and no one would know. But if a woman messes around with a guy.... ahem! Someone's going to notice a stimulated guy and that's just embarrassing.

As for love.... no. Try not to confuse sex with love. While they play hand in hand, unless she says she loves you and for valid reasons don't assume anything else on your own.

Dear God, 13-15..... please be safe. Always remember, it should be fun for you BOTH!

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