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writes:I have been seeing a guy on and off for around four years now. But he has never considered me as his girlfriend. He tells me that he loves me but then won't call me, message me or answer my calls for weeks. When I do finally see him I try to ignore him but he tells me that he misses me and loves me and treats me like his girlfriend. But then this cycle happens again. I always give him space but how much space does he need to not talk to me for a month. Deep down I know he does love me but also I know for a fact that he wants to sleep with other girls. He has even told me. But he said he couldn't stand it if I was with another man. Reply to this Question
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reader, Sweet-thing  +, writes (6 March 2009):
 He's immature and doesn't know what he wants or doesn't want. You should make yourself less available and try to meet someone else. He's a waste of your time.
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reader, kaylagal  +, writes (6 March 2009):
 He is wasting your time, wants you there but DOESN'T want YOU. Sorry to be so blunt but been there, done that and just trying to save you some of what I went thru. Let him go, move on with you life, you'll be happy you did. He is a little player, but you see his game, and you're not gonna get played.
Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 March 2009): I think your only problem is wanting a man who cannot be had.
Even if you land this guy, he's going to desire exploring his alternatives. Trust me, once a player, always a player, and you do not want to pay the price.
There are men everywhere, don't go for the guy who cannot be yours. Never wait for someone to make a choice you need them to make.
If it were me, I'd choose to be done wanting him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 March 2009): Seriously? MOVE ON. Come on you deserve better than that. This jerk wants to have his cake and eat it too. You should not plan your life around what is convenient for him. He is playing games with you and only you can stop it.
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