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30-35,
*francy
writes:my boyfriend has friends that goes to my school........... i never talked to them before but now i want to make friends with them , how can i approach them.? and what if they reject me or maybe ask me out ? i want to tell my boyfriend about it but am scared he might think my intentions are to dig up graves and find information about his private life since i use to do it by stalking him with different numbers? and if they happen to ask me out after making friends will that be my fault? please help am dying to talk to them.........
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 March 2009): Why are you so desperate to make friends with them/ what are you intentions? Personally, I see very little value in doing so. Many relationships thrive on the fact that each person has a part of their life that doesn't involve their significant other.
Yes, your boyfriend will see this as something not as innocent as you make it out to be, because, let's face it, relationships nowadays carry very little weight in the way of monogamy. I recommend that you just stick to your friends for the time being. If your boyfriend feels comfortable introducing you to his friends, then it's all good.
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reader, Replacement  +, writes (12 March 2009):
 Have your boyfriend introduce them to you, then you can get to know them. If they are decent friends they won't ask you out.
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