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41-50,
*helette
writes:how to accept or move on? my boyfriend of 12 years insist on us seeing each other every other weekend since he and i have lived apart for 2 years . i have had a very hard time dealing with this along with his drug abuse . he is also in a new band and i went to one practice now i am not included in that which everyone is welcomed to hang out the other wives and friends . what would your advice be to the problem?
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reader, Mrs. Mom +, writes (12 March 2009):
 I think Starfish is right. This doesn't sound like a good deal for you. I'm sure there is someone out there who doesn't use drugs and who wants to spend time with you. Take the plunge, and cut the ties with this guy. Start living your own life. Dive into hobbies and into work, into friends and family. Be free to find someone new who is much better for you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 March 2009): Dump him - your life is too short. Sorry if not good advice. but i wouldn't mess around it sounds he has best of everything.... and you are not getting anything back... dump him.
Star.x.
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