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*opelesslylostwithouther
writes:All my friends are dating and I get the feeling they don't want me around. But for some reason I don't beleve in love or dating or anything like that. I know it might sound pitiful but I've never dated and I don't know where to start. My problem is that if I started dating I can't find someone as smart or as mature as me. What's your opinion? Reply to this Question
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reader, audie  +, writes (19 June 2009):
 At your age its perfectly normal not to be intrested in dating and stuff. your friends are probably just dating to fit in. you dont have to date if you dont want to. the time wil come and you will find someone as smart and mature as you are. i bet she'll be so great your friends will wish they had waited too. in the meantime dont give in to peer pressure and just concentrate on living your own life the way you want to.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2009): My opinion is to wait for someone as smart and mature as you are and there are many girls like that. If that girl comes along, go ahead and date her. The "love" and "dating" your friends are doing in your eyes are fake...and you are right. You don't have to date if you don't want to, they are just your friends not your commanders and they aren't all-knowing and wise.
As you grow older, try to have a more relaxed mind about dating, because without it you may not find that mature girl you are looking for...after all you can't judge a book by its cover.
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reader, KatieKyle  +, writes (19 June 2009):
If you are really the between the ages of 13-15 you have got to give yourself time. If your not ready then your not ready. You just don't jump into a relationship. For all you know because you do that you could break the girls heart. All I know is good things come to those who wait.
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