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writes:Hi and thank-you very much for reading my question =) .. I have been going out with this guy for 9 months now. I've been falling in and out of love with him because he's changed a lot throughout the past months. He also started to randomly talk to girls and also craigslist sex ads. Also, in the past he has accidentally shoved and hit me when he was drunk. One time he even started my car when i was sitting in the drivers seat drunk and told me that I should leave. But he insists that he has never cheated on me. He also lives with me and my family because he left his house (the parents were violent.) He recently gained enough money to move out and we have been talking about him getting an apartment. Should I dump him and kick him out or no?
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reader, nazeena  +, writes (7 August 2009):
It sounds like this guy may end up following the partner of his family.. You got signs to move on from the shoving and hitting part. If I was you I end the relationship and let him find his own place. You don't need violence in your life, believe me it could let to something else. You know exactly what you have to do in this situation.
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (7 August 2009):
 I think you should definitely consider ending this relationship. Any guy who puts you in danger - hitting you, suggesting you drive drunk - clearly doesn't love you like he should. Any guy who truly deserves you and loves you, always prioritizes your safety and well-being, even if he's pissed off.
And now, with the girls and the craigslist, why both sticking around to find out if he has actually gone through the act of cheating? He's already cheating in his mind. I wouldn't put up with this anymore. Kick him off of his free ride that he's getting by living with you and your family.
Lose the loser, sweetness! Good luck!
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