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male
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Recently- A girl found out that I was interested in her, but she was already seeing someone else. Will it weird her out if I still occasionally send a text/ leave a post on facebook? Should I talk to her less or not at all? Help me out please!
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reader, Basschick  +, writes (8 August 2009):
 You should not contact her. If she later breaks up with him, then have at it.
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reader, \m/J.D\m/  +, writes (7 August 2009):
 Hmmm, In all honesty you should leave well alone, for your own sake mainly, ppl are very good at keeping others dangling and yes you could have a friendship with her, but emotionally how is that going to affect you? Ive had guy (and girl) friends that have been into me, even when ive been with someone else at the time, i spoke through how they felt with them, explained i didnt want anything more than friendship and tried keeping our friendship going but any time i was nice to them, spoke to them or any kinda friendly interaction in general, they would get their hopes up and confuse friendship for something more. If however shes saying she feels the same way but dont want to break up with the other person yet or because Yada yada shes emotionally stringing you along and truely isnt worth the heart ache.
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