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writes:Its been 8 months now since I first met my boyfriend,we started going out as friends and only having a good time, things happened and now Im inlove but im in new jersey and his in key west.I fly to see him at least once a month for 3 days he has an amazing job and Im a student, I never thought it would end up like this but because Im inlove with him I want this to continue. My question is Is this worth it? I love him so much but he isnt sure where this would lead he says whatever happens, happens.Please help. Reply to this Question
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reader, nazeena  +, writes (7 August 2009):
First and foremost you say that your in love, but is he in love with you? Sounds like he doesn't want to rush things, which is usually a good thing. Sometimes if you push/rush things, you may fall fast. Tell him how you feel, and hear what he has to say. Maybe he can visit you sometimes instead of you having to always go to him. At least if he makes that attempt, you will know he is willing. Look at how he treats you from then to now. If he treats you well or like his queen then it's a very good thing. Honestly I wouldn't give up just at yet. I always believe that things happen for a reason, and you should always have faith, as things will fall into place at the right time. Wish you all the best..
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reader, EpeeGuy +, writes (7 August 2009):
From my point of view, yes, but LDRs are very hard, as I have really found out recently. My ex told me she did love me, but needed me there more, and so ours ended. There was never a fight before that, and we lasted 15 months. Ours was not even nearly as far apart as yours is, and it just wears on some people. I was willing to do anything for her, and she just needed someone nearby.
Just keep that in mind as you think this through, but if you want this, then maybe it is something worth pursuing.
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