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writes:I have been going out with my boyfriend for a year and 4 months now and i really am not happy anymore. I love him to pieces but he is always making me feel small. I have to go home whenever he wants to see one of his friends. I cant be there because his friends dont like me very much. I am also lead to believe that he does things without telling me. There is this girl who really likes him and he went out with her without telling me. What am i suppose to think they are doing? She has been around for aslong as me and my boyfriend have been going out. She has always been the main cause of me and boyfriends fights. She cant leave him alone and i also recently found out that her best friend also really likes him. He is fairly childish for his age and i seem to be alot more mature than my age (we are both 15). I always end up in tears no matter what happens and it makes me feel so angry. We have so much baggage in this relationship. I sometimes really want to end it but i cant because he always tells me 'he loves me'. He is making it so hard for me. But the longer i go out with him the harder it's going to get to end it with him. But im not sure if i want to end it. PLEASE HELP ME I AM AT THE END OF MY TETHER AND CANT HANDLE MUCH MORE.Thankyou
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reader, nazeena  +, writes (7 August 2009):
This sounds very familiar. From the sound of this, he doesn't deserve you at all. You deseve better, and need to be with some that will respect you, love and cherish you. If he truly cares for you he wouldn't make you go home, just to see his friend, the question is, is this a male/female friend? If his friends don't like, then tough luck. If your not happy then that's a sign to leave, close the door. There are many fishes in the sea, this one may not be the one. Think about you and your happiness. As yourself does he deserve someone like me? The final call is in your hands. take care...wish you the best
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reader, Vickett0410 +, writes (7 August 2009):
 well tbh your answer is in your first sentance, "I have been going out with my boyfriend for a year and 4 months now and i really am not happy anymore." If your not happy anymore then you shouldn't be with him babe. by the sounds of it he's ether too imature for a relationship right now or his perspectives are messed up, if he really did "love you" that much then he'd at least try to see how your feeling. with the friends situation, thats just mean. i can understand where he's coming from because he's trying to avoid conflict, but he's not being very fair to you. I've been in this situation a few times and even though it may be hard to break-up with him, if your not happy anymore then you two should at least have a proper talk and tell him your not happy, if that doesn't work then it's probably best to end it. hope i helped x
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