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Girlfriend slept with flat mate..now what?

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Question - (26 August 2009) 4 Answers - (Newest, 26 August 2009)
A male United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I live in a flat with four people. the other guy is

"mike"

and I am dating "Nicole"

Now I was drunk one night and as a joke suggested that "nicole" and I team up with "mike" and his girlfriend "stacey"...

"Nicole" quickly replies, she has already done that, and it wasnt that hot. It wasnt a joke, she was red with embarassment!

What the hell do I do now

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (26 August 2009):

she cheated. the end.

simple.

no drama

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A male reader, Roaming Gnome United States +, writes (26 August 2009):

Well,

She was honest and embarrassed and you're the one who wanted to diddle around with your friends girl while he did the same.

You ask "What the hell do I do now?" Well, for starters you're young and allowed to do such things but if you're going to ask such things and make such requests even if you're drunk (so not an excuse it just helps brings things out.)

There's no reason to be mad at her if this happened pre-you and her.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (26 August 2009):

dump her? shes cheated . Whats the confusion.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (26 August 2009):

hey

well they always say drunk people always speak the truth dont they?

The answer to this is simple you dump her and move on because as a boyfriend and girlfriend your supposed to be truly devoted to each other no-one who is suposed to be cheating in a relationship as that is not a defintion of a relationship, nobody deserves to be cheated on. You dont waste anymore time worrying on "what the hell to do next" you leave her and find somebody who you no you can trust :)

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