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I want to spend more time with my boyfriend. How do I get him to come over?

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Question - (10 August 2009) 4 Answers - (Newest, 10 August 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, *iff246omgg@yahoo.com writes:

ok so me and my boyfriend has been dating for 6 mouths and he never wants to come over he says he loves me and i say it back and i want him to pay a little more attention to meh how do i do this

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A male reader, EllsworthT South Africa +, writes (10 August 2009):

Do you live with your parents or a roommate? Are you a slob? Is your place filthy? Do you live far away or in a bad part of town? Hey, we need more information here.

Call him from your place and tell him you are insane horny. If he doesn't show up, dump him.

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A female reader, trotman68 United Kingdom +, writes (10 August 2009):

trotman68 agony auntHas he given any reasons why he doesnt want to come over? If its important to you, have you suggested to go over to his, this will help you spend time together. You havent said how often you see him,so I would need some more information, before I could really advise you on this. Let me know if he is out with his mates rather being out with you. Just general things that you are feeling at the moment. If you feel he works all the time so its less time he has to spend with you, what you both do when you are together. I wait for your reply.

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A male reader, IamSoConfused United Kingdom +, writes (10 August 2009):

Ask him why he doesn't want to come over and tell him to compromise. Tell him he can't just spend all of his time with his friends or whatever and has to make time for you or you won't put up with it for much longer.

Maybe he is scared of your parents and doesn't want them to see you together. Who knows.

Sort something out. We can't do that for you.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (10 August 2009):

Are you for sure he's faithful to you? I've been in similar situations and they always come out the same. There's someone else in the picture, that's why they never wanted to spend time with me. You should keep a close eye on him. Good luck!

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