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Does giving blowjobs make a girl a whore?

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Question - (24 November 2008) 14 Answers - (Newest, 2 September 2010)
A female Canada age 30-35, anonymous writes:

If I like giving bj's does that make me a whore...? I give my bf plenty of them cuz in my opinion I find it fun, my friends say that girls who do it a lot are dirty... and even though I try to ignore it, it always comes back... is it bad for a girl to like this kind of thing?

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A male reader, appliance Canada +, writes (2 September 2010):

Oh certainly not!

Oral sex is part of a normal and enjoyable sexlife. There's nothing "slutty" about it.

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A male reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (2 August 2010):

olderthandirt agony auntYou are too young to be messin' around like that. but to the point...no not unless you charge for the service you are not technically a whore. Some might classify it as slutty though. I just think you're too young.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (22 December 2008):

i think 13-15 is too young for that sortof thing but honestly but i wish i was getting bjs at that age so maybe i'm just jealous. hopefully your bf isn't too much older than you and is a good person...giving bjs to bad guysmight come back to haunt you...

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (22 December 2008):

i think 13-15 is too young for that sortof thing but honestly but i wish i was getting bjs at that age so maybe i'm just jealous. hopefully your bf isn't too much older than you and is a good person...giving bjs to bad guysmight come back to haunt you...

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A male reader, askJAY South Africa +, writes (17 December 2008):

askJAY agony auntyou are not a whore. lol

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A male reader, askJAY South Africa +, writes (17 December 2008):

askJAY agony auntyou'd be a whore if you were giving all the guys bj's LOL...i take it you aren't, so rest easy young bird...you ain't a whore.

why tell you friends what you do in private anyway?

Ciao

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (17 December 2008):

eyeswideopen agony auntJust know that you can still get STD's from oral sex. Use a condom always.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (17 December 2008):

no girls like you make life for guys good

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A reader, anonymous, writes (28 November 2008):

in response to: AHH NO! i didnt mean it htat way they talked about how they think girls who give blowjobs are whores i didnt tell them

then your not a whore!

dont listen to them be happy

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A reader, anonymous, writes (27 November 2008):

This is verified as being by the original poster of the question

AHH NO! i didnt mean it htat way they talked about how they think girls who give blowjobs are whores i didnt tell them

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A reader, anonymous, writes (27 November 2008):

its not whorey to give bjs..

its a bit weird to tell people about how you give them and enjoy giving them....

and how long have ya been with the guy?

its whorey to give him bjs if you havent been with him for more than a few months i reckon

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A male reader, DoubleM United States +, writes (24 November 2008):

DoubleM agony auntWhile I must agree with "Johnny Bananas" that you are very young to be so explicitly active (my words), I too will avoid being judgmental. Allow me to offer you some valuable advice: Keep your private life to yourself. You do not need to tell even a few friends anything about your sex life, because two or three will spread it all around. This creates a reputation, good or bad. And make sure that your boyfriend, whomever that may be now or in the future, respects you enough to abide your wishes.

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A male reader, Johnny Bananas United States +, writes (24 November 2008):

Is it bad for a girl to like this kind of thing... Ummm yeah but mainly because of your age. My god 13-15, something is seriously wrong with you kids these days. When I was your age (about 7-9 years ago) no one was really doing this thing. Good god! Do you know the consequences of having intercourse and even giving Blo wjobs? I doubt it. But hey, I don't judge. Is you feel that this is way of fun then go ahead and do it but everyone has their own opinions. I'm sure your gonna want to hear the good and not the bad.

My opinion: No you're not a whore. Many people perceive a promiscuous woman as a whore. You have one guy (or is there more?). Girls especially will say that to upset you. But I think you are just way too young to be doing these things.

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A female reader, lah mouw United States +, writes (24 November 2008):

lah mouw agony auntGirllll, you like what you like and no one can change that. Quite frankly, it's no ones business but yours and your boyfriends. If you like giving head then so be it! There are PLENTY of people who probably enjoy it more than you. Ignore what your friends say, it's none of their concern. If they're gonna keep saying stuff like that to you then you might want to reconsider them being your confidants.

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