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He asked me to dump my BF and get with him and I don't know what to do!

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Question - (24 November 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 25 November 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *weetiepiee :-)x. writes:

Hey x , I have a problem, well it started like this... my bf was off school for a week due to a bad cold however during this week one of his friends started txten me again sayin he likes me blah blah blah... but as i got talking to him over the week and getting to know him a bit better, i don't know why but I think I started to fall for him a bit. It just started off with txts sayin he likes me or thinks I am pretty or whatever then he asked me to split with my bf so we can go out.

I really dont know what to do, I have a minor crush on the boy and I really do love my boyfriend but I feel as if I have done something wrong and every time I see my boyfriend I just feel so bad for some reason..

Any advice would be helpful xx

what should I dooo :-( ?? xxx

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A reader, anonymous, writes (25 November 2008):

Well, first off, sweetiepie, the boy who has been texting you is not much of a friend to your bf. Trying to steal a "friend's" girl when he is sick at home and bummed out? Come on! Is that a quality you would like in anyone? What if it was you who were laid up with the flu and one of your "friends" started texting bf wanting him to "break up" with you? Anyway, are you sure you are really into the "steady" thing? You are a bit young for that. It is fine to be close friends, but it seems you are not too sure about being "exclusively" someone's best girl friend. If that is the case, you should tell bf. But, I would wait till he is over the crud first. That is the least you can do. And I don't really give you and "texter" too long, either. I don't think he is much into "loyalty", if you know what I mean....

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