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writes:I have a question - Me and my ex-boyfriend were having sex and it was 2 days after my period and he might have precumed inside of me. Is there any way that i might become preg.? I dont know i have been feelin weird after we had sex.We never used a condom and I doubt if i was fertile or not? I really need help I dont know what because 2 days later i hooked up with my soon to be husband.and he is really excited to be a dad aI dont want to do anything intil i am sure if i and Preg. or not...Please help me
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 November 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell I don't know if I am Preg. or not and well I don't even know If I am prg. or not...my soon to be husband he is only 19 and he wants to be the father of my baby and he even told me that he wants to be a father..and no I havent told my fiancé that there is a possiable chance that i might be preg.I need to get one thing straight I did not cheat on my fiancé we broke up then got back together...and I know it wasnt the smart thing to do is to have sex with no condom that was my fault...
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 November 2008): You need to be absolutely sure because you can't put your fiance through this. Imagine being excited for being a dad, talking to the belly every time, kissing the belly, taking care of you extra soecial for 9 months only to later find out that it's not his child? That's just as bad as cheating on him... which you did.
You'll practically drive him to suicide. Be honest with him now.
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reader, Miss Potter  +, writes (1 November 2008):
 So how does your fiancee know that you are pregnant if YOU ARE NOT SURE YET? First get a pregnancy test! You could also go to a clinic and get tested there, but a home preg test should be just fine.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 November 2008): OK, slow down. Does your fiancé know there's a possibility you're pregnant now or is he keen on kids in the future? If it's the former you need to arm yourself with the facts as soon as possible. There's a very real chance you could be pregnant, so the first thing you need to do is buy a couple of pregnancy tests and find out for sure whether you're pregnant or not. If so, visit your doctor and explore your options. If you're pregnant with your ex's child, you need to be open and honest with him and your fiancé, and you may risk your relationships with them both. I hope this experience has taught you not to be so irresponsible as to cheat on your fiancé and have unprotected sex.
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