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male
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:I may have an opportunity to get back in a relationship with an ex/best friend. There are a couple of things holding me back...I'm not absolutely positive about the future of the relationship and she wants someone she can build a future with. My friends say I should move on (they say she is unattractive, she is 5 years older, and has a kid), but the problem is I do love her (not sure about 'in love'), I really enjoy spending time with her, we have a lot in common and always have fun together, the sex is great, and her kid is cute. To be honest, she is not the most attractive person to me either. There is also a distance of almost two hours. She is still one of my best friends and says she is afraid because she doesn't want her heart broken again. Should I pursue her?
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reader, metoo1124 +, writes (5 March 2009):
 sounds like you really like her but your friends have gotten into your head, if you really like her and you really love all the things you say you love about her apperance should mean nothing. beauty fades, it really does but personality does not and if you keep thinking the way you are right now doing things because your friends tell you to, you will end up with a beautiful person that is the ugliest person inside and you will be forever unhappy.
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