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writes:my bf and i never had a date since we know each other.we fall in love thru handphone. messaging and calling.but i know him before. We were studying in a same college for a year. At the moment, we haven't been a couple yet. not even friend. AQfter that, we furthered our study at varsity. during the short break before going to varsity, we start texting and calling each other thru the phone. After several months,we fall in love. The problem is, he was too far from me. We dont have the chance to meet. If we have money, we can have a date but both of us are students. He asked me to wait for 4 years, then we will meet. We have finished our study at the time, so we'll have our own money. I'm dying loving him even though I haven't been dating with him. Is it possible to continue this relationship?
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reader, MuffinGirl  +, writes (1 November 2008):
 Yes, i think it is possible. But how can you really know your love will survive? At the moment you don't know. Don't make any promises to him. You are "together" now and you're still too young to make such a big commitments. It will be really hard to keep your relationship, I'm really sorry to say that. But if your love is really true and he's the one and he feels the same about you, it's possible to continue well and wait 4 years. By the time you will know that. I think you should relax and enjoy in your feelings or love to him.
Good luck!
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