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female
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22-25,
anonymous
writes:So... me and my ex dated for a year and seven months. But I broke up with him cause we just went too far! (Meaning, we had sex. Our first time btw!)But ya see. I didn't want to. And even he knew that. Ok! So anyways... we broke up, and I've moved on about 6 months later! But this new guy I'm with is SUPER SWEET! But he can be kind of a horn dog at times... Most the times. I tell him to back off, cause he knows what I went through, and usually he does! But lately it's harder to stop him, and he's worrying me. (even though he's a virgin...)I really like him. And that's a big step for me, coming out of a great (minus that last lil detail) relationship.I don't wanna lose the guy I'm with now! But idk. That's where I really want help. =(
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reader, Ginalolabridga + ♥, writes (5 December 2008):
 Hi,
Every woman has a right to keep her morals and values as she sees fit if your with a guy who has a problem with that then you need to tell him that's how it is with you!
If he does not respect those values then he might have to take a hike!
Simple rule to abide by and i would ask he respects your wishes and nothing is stopping you from being friends but from what i gather he seems a little carried away at times and that can cause a problem so a quiet word in his ear for now should do the trick he will soon get the message good luck.
Ginalolabridga
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 December 2008): Were you planning on waiting until marriage to have sex? Because at your age, it's completely normal to be having sex. Talk to the guy you're with now about it. And make sure not to give in to pressure! If he pressures you EVER about anything you do not want to do, GET RID OF HIM!
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