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writes:I was wondering is there anything I can do to curb my sexual desires? My boyfriend and I don't get intimate very often, in fact we go months without any sort of intimacy. I need to know if there's anything I can do to squash my sexual urges so that I'm not nearly as cranky and frustrated with him. Reply to this Question
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (16 December 2008):
If he's not satisfying you but you are happy to stay with a guy who is letting you down in a big area of your relationship then buy a vibrator.
It'll take the edge off and then you can continue being best-friends-with-cuddles with your man.
I'll cross my fingers that you find a better boyfriend soon though... I wouldn't be able to stick out a relationship where I didn't feel sexy and wanted.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, passionatelynumb +, writes (16 December 2008):
 I agree with Petinal.
Being sexually compatible is very, very important in any long term relationship.
I know exactly what you mean by being cranky and frustrated. My first long term girlfreind (now ex)sounds a lot like your boyfriend. She only cared to get intimate about once a month or so. I tried to be noble thinking that sex was just a small part of a relationship and that I just needed to deal with it. Ultimately, the frustration broke us up.
Now my current partner has a sex drive that eclipses mine. Its amazing when you find someone who craves physical affection as much as you do.
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reader, petina1 +, writes (16 December 2008):
 Yes, there's a good solution, find another sexy boyfriend. You are only young and it could be a problem between you as you go on with him. So many couples part because of it, you may as well just be his friend because he certainly isnt acting like your lover is he? good luck
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